Help!! Hubby backing out!!

Thanks for all the encouragement!!! My family thinks that I have absolutely lost my mind.

A question though, DH is still listed on my reservations (1 night at POP and 3 nights at BCV). I just couldn't let go of the hope that he'd join me! I'm thinking about just leaving them the way they are so that I won't be in the system as a solo, just for a little security. DH and my parents aren't all that crazy about me all alone in a hotel room. I would think that if you're going to be safe anywhere it would be Disney, right?
 
I agree. I felt very safe in my room at the Pop.
I did make sure the dead bolt or whatever you call that lock was set, but that was more for my family's concern than mine.
 
I have stayed by myself before at OKW and BCV. I felt very safe just being at Disney. Go and have fun!!
 
A solo trip is a great opportunity to discover *YOU*. That was the hardest thing about my first trip alone - I could think of a million things my spouse would get a kick out of but it was darn hard identifying what I might be liking to do. Spend some time thinking about that. What do you like to do that you KNOW your hubby wouldn't?

In my case it was watching every single performance one day of the Hunchback stage show that used to be in MGM. And Tea, at the grand floridian. And supper from my cooler, eaten in bed watching cartoons. And window shopping to my hearts content. And eating mickey bars in the morning, instead of breakfast.

MAy I suggest - bring a conversation starting 'prop'! This is something I've JUST started to do, after learning about it at my local scrapbook store.

My companion is a 'build-a-bear' teddy named Dimples. She travels sticking out of the top of my roll-on bag, making even security smile. She rides in my totebag or in the basket of my ecv in the park, and projects the message that We're out having fun and approachable.

Dimples has quite a travel wardrobe, always does what I want to do without complaint, and makes it easy for people to talk to us. She stars in my photographs, has her own autograph book (with a place for the photo right in it), and her own little lanyard.

I've also had pretending to be an 'undercover cm' - and my job is to help OTHER people have a magical day. When focused on that, it's EASY to forget how shy you think you are. What can you do? IT's as simple as a smile as you hold the door for someone - or a trick to entertain a cranky child in line - or thanks to a bus driver.

You CAN do it!

(More than a third of my trips are solo, a third+ with friends and about twenty five percent with my spouse, who likes to ski. )

PS. Please don't be afraid - WDW is probably the safest place you could travel alone!

There is a ton of security that you don't even see - and may not even be aware of, if you saw it in action. Lock your door and use the chain. Don't open it to a knock without checking first to see who it is. The normal precautions you would take anywhere in America now days. You really WILL be all right. (Some of hubby and parents ACTUAL hesitation may be - they don't WANT to believe you actually WILL be ok without them, lol)
 

I haven't been solo yet but I will some day. While DS will be going with me this year I can still try new and interesting eating places that DH and DS would never agree to such as Morocco or Boma. DS is 8 and will eat from the kid's menu for now. When the time comes, and I do go it alone I will watch all of the shows that I want and closely notice all of the details in the World that I generally miss. I will also search to my hearts content for Hidden Mickeys. :earsboy:
I hope you went and had fun!
 
jsmla said:
Thanks for all the encouragement!!! My family thinks that I have absolutely lost my mind.

A question though, DH is still listed on my reservations (1 night at POP and 3 nights at BCV). I just couldn't let go of the hope that he'd join me! I'm thinking about just leaving them the way they are so that I won't be in the system as a solo, just for a little security. DH and my parents aren't all that crazy about me all alone in a hotel room. I would think that if you're going to be safe anywhere it would be Disney, right?
Are you back yet? How was it? The world wants to know! Did you survive?
 
Yes, I'm back. All in one piece too. All in all I'd say that solo has it's plusses and it's minuses. I'm still trying to decide what I think about it. I'm writing a trip report though I hardly ever finish those things. Thanks for all the help!
 
:thumbsup2 Go for it

I took my one and only solo trip so far in June 2002, and I was travelling from the U.K. and have to admit I was a little nervous about it, but once I landed in Orlando I was fine.

I did everything I want to do when I felt like it, and did'nt have to rush around the parks. Shopping was bliss, and I enjoyed having a leisurely meal in a resturant at the end of the day. The only thing I found was nearer the end of the holiday I missed having someone to talk the day over with. I will do it again in the future, but I will only stay for 10 days instead of 14.

Go and enjoy yourself you only live once.

P.S - My boyfriend does'nt understand my disney fix, but he always pays half my expenses to get there. I always ask him to come but he's not interested, so I usually end up going now with my sister & niece.
 
jsmla said:
Yes, I'm back. All in one piece too. All in all I'd say that solo has it's plusses and it's minuses. I'm still trying to decide what I think about it. I'm writing a trip report though I hardly ever finish those things. Thanks for all the help!
so how was it
i would love to do this but DH doesnt want to go away without him or the kids. Wven if i go with friends, then he has to watch his kids ...so
what was great.. and what wasnt
 





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