Even though we are your "typical" middle-class family: mom, dad, 3 kids under 6, we are tightening the budget to make our first family trip this October. I'm not sure what you're own finanical situation is, but I am a stay at home mom and we live on a pretty strict budget...the only thing we usually buy is the necessities: food, clothes, gas, doctors, etc. and extras are always from whatever may be left over...pizza and a movie have been our "family nights". I think that people are surprised that once they write down what they spend their money on they are surprised how easy it is to spend $5 here, $2 there...and how much it adds up. My big thing is we don't do fast food...I pack food for everywhere, park, beach, day trip, whatever. I don't drink coffee on the run, or soda, or iced tea. We are big water drinkers, and milk for the kids. If you buy a soda once or twice a day at work...that adds up. Or lunch out every now and then. Or, going to the mall.....I hardly ever go to the mall...you always see a "deal"...Target, TJMaxx, Marshalls, clearance online...most of our clothes come from there...good clothes but you've got to know what you are looking for. We just went to dinner the other night...with a chain coupon and got the kids dinner and ice cream. This is like once ever couple of months. Coupons at the grocery store. Also, look at your monthly bills...cable, phone(do we all really need all those extras, trash collection, magazine subscriptions, newspapers...we have basic, I mean like 13 channels cable, and a bundle package for phone, internet and cable. I'm down to two magazine subscriptions (from 5) and don't buy the paper except Sunday for the coupons. Fun stuff to do? I have a zoo membership that allows you to enter most zoos nationwide free or a small fee. Look around locally for free goings on at parks...we just went to a local parade today and don't take any cash with you...those balloons and other stuff is easier to buy if you have money in your pocket. The library has pretty decent movies to rent for free too. Gift for other people...make a budget and stick to it. I've gotten great gifts for all sorts of people at the discount stores mentioned above ...even target and
walmart...you just have to know what you are looking for.
I guess my bottom line advice is: look at where you are spending money...try to change any money eating habits you may have and put that money in a jar, or better yet an account. Sometimes I find myself looking at something I think I need, whether at the clothing store or grocery store...and thinking...do I really NEED this...I could put this money in the savings for vacation. Look at the bare bones budget you are willing to go to disney on...you and your daughter could stay at the value resorts, get a fridge...stop at the store and have breakfast and lunch yourself and rotate table service and counter service dinners. How much extra spending money do you think you really need....I mean there is sooo much to do at Disney and the resorts. Do you want to fly or drive? Check out the cheap rates on this web site and others....okay, that's my bit of advice. Good luck. I'm sure that I will be addicted too once we take our kids.
