My question is......IS Cinderella Royal Table worth it? I mean, it's not normal for us to eat dinner at 9:35 PM... We'll probably eat around 4 pm to prevent starvation 'til 9 pm... I guess we're paying for the experience vs. the food...BUT Is Cinderella Royal Table that BIG? Is it a "must" disney experience? Another question is...MK closes after 10 PM Wishes, so if we eat there 'til 10:30 PM, would they kick us at at 10:30 PM?
Whether it's "worth it" or not is really based on you and your family. For many many MANY people, Cinderella Royal Table is very much a "must" Disney experience. People get up at the crack of dawn at exactly 120 days out to try their luck at getting an ADR. They try every single day to see if there are cancellations. Some folks have been known to buy / sell their ADRs on eBay. So yes, for many people, it's a huge deal.
Is it for you? No one here can tell you. If you or your daughter loves Cinderella and princesses and thinks eating inside a castle is a dream come true then yes, it probably is. If you're kind of luke-warm about the princesses and like the castle just fine from the outside and would much rather see fireworks, then it might not be. But only you can make that call.
As for leaving MK, you won't be "kicked out" at 10:30pm, but there is a limit to how long they'll let you linger. The park will have closed at 10pm, which means all the attractions and rides will be closed and the only shops that will still be open will be along Main Street. You'll be able to shop and take pictures and wander towards the exit, but you won't be able to go into any other areas of the park, as they will have all closed as well.
Also ... while you can see the fireworks from the castle (and it's a very unique viewing experience), you can't really see 'Wishes.' It's a very different experience inside than outside, but it's pretty cool.
Personally, I'd keep the ADR and grab a light snack around 4pm, then take my time leaving MK after dinner, to enjoy the unique sight of Main Street after dark.
