He Showed Up...

[koolaidmoms]

How wonderful! You made me cry. If only all children were as loved as you are.

 

[PennyW]

Pass those tissues! How amazing for you ... what a wonderful Dad!

 

[PghLybrt]

Oh my ....you did it to me too!!!

That story is absolutley wonderful!

 

[ChrizJen]

I just read this and not only are there tears streaming down my face, I'm actually sobbing. My father disowned my brother when he came out (at 18) and died long before I knew I was a lesbian. Sometimes I think about what would he had done if he knew about me, you are lucky.

I'm sorry to you and to all who have to live in the shadow of parents who don't understand.
And yes, I do know how incredibly lucky I am. I've always considered myself lucky to have such a wonderful dad, but it was like a light went off in my head on Saturday.

And I have to mention that my partner called her parents who live in Michigan to tell them about it. Her mom (who's always been very supportive of her) said that she was sad that she couldn't be here with us. But then her dad took the phone started talking about what a waste of time it was, and that we made the choice to live this lifestyle, so we should live with the consequences. Needless, to say, Jen was very sad and disappointed to hear her dad say those hateful words. (But on the bright side...if I know Jen's mom, she gave him QUITE an earful after they got off the phone...LOL)

Anyhow, my point is that I do know how lucky I am, and after this experience, I plan to make every moment count when it comes to my dad. I truly believe that this was his way of saying (without really having to say it) that he loves me unconditionally, and he supports me 100%.

 

[DVC~OKW~96]

He did say it, your Dad. He didn't need verbals. He did more than put sound to his support of you, he put action. We value action higher than verbals in some cases, yes? It's also the man thing. Men tend to show, not tell. (I said 'tend').

Your saying that you plan to make every moment count is the critical factor. As old and worn out as this concept is, you sincerely never know how many moments you will have. You now have a chance to show him your love and 100% support, eh?

 

[Timon-n-Pumbaa Fan]

Ok, this post should come with a Kleenex warning.

I am glad that you got that surprise. Parents....just when you think you know them.

 

[jenn&nelsonrego]

That was absolutely beautiful. I'm here at work and there are tears streaming down my face.
Bless your family!

Second the tears here.......

What a great story!

In tears at work, here, too!

Looks like I am in good company, with my kleenex in one hand, typing with the other and sniffling like a baby...

 

[RickinNYC]

Actions speak louder than words and your Dad had a LOT to say! What a great story! Your Dad is a testament to what true fatherhood is all about. AWESOME!

 

[Debbie Jean]

This is the most powerful, touching and moving story I've heard in such a long time... thank you so much for sharing it

***happy tears***

 

[npmommie]

wonderful story!!

 

[Tiggernut_jadie]

Just caught up with this thread and joining those with tears in theri eyes. I'm so glad for you and your Dad that this happened.

Good on ya Crystal's Dad - you are one VERY cool straight person!