Not sure I am going to be much help. BUT, we did do this show with our two year old a week before her third birthday. We were seated at a table right against the front of the stage. So, with front row seats, there was no losing interest. BUT, she has always been very good in restaurants, so I am not sure that helps. My second child is a handful, but I do think that the show is so loud that it would compensate for any problems we would have with him. I say go, and enjoy.... after all it is still free for her! (that is why we did it before she turned 3, we did the luau too, but we had seats further back, and she fell asleep!)