Pyrate_Pryncess
If I'm a redheaded ninja, does that make me a Gin-
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Welcome!
I'm sure you're wondering about this brilliant title. Well, let me explain! We lived in Virginia for a long time and always had annual passes to Busch Gardens. A group of friends and myself got together when our kids were little and decided that we needed a way to go by ourselves at least once a season. Busch Gardens opens to pass holders for a day about a week before it opens to the public so we decided this would be the best week to pull of our plan. We made plans for sitters and we went! Best. Time. EVER!
On that chilly day in 2003, a master plan was born! Over the years, we have convinced our kids that, that one day is "parents only". They have known this for so long, they don't even question it! Even my 10 year old still believes it is true
. Fast forward to now! DH and I have been married almost 11 years and have never had a vacation. We never even had a honeymoon. Sad? I know! We had planned to go to WDW as a family in October, but the kids were homesick so we drove up to VA for 2 weeks instead. (It was their choice). I was content with not going again until the super-mega trip we are planning in 2014....more on that later! DH all of the sudden, caught the bug. He caught the famous I-want-to-go-to-Disney-right-now bug......you know you've had it! I never thought he would catch it though
We are limited on time so we ruled out the rest of this year. We thought about fall of next year but, his sister is getting married and we have to go to that. The only option was late winter/early spring. We didn't tell the kids that we were thinking of going. We kept it to ourselves, then he sprang some stuff on me that left my head spinning. He decided that he wanted to go JUST US! JUST US, did you read that???? He said, we had never done anything without the kids and that it would be nice to go and not worry about having them with us. I pointed out, that it would be more affordable too! DUH! 2 people instead of 4 is always cheaper! We finally settled on the dates and hotel and how we were going to work the tickets. We have annual passes right now, but they expire in December. We aren't renewing them because we won't be able to use them next year other than this trip. I knew that the kids would be bummed that we were ditching them so I emplored my tried and true method of breaking bad news......I lied! I told them that being passholders/military AND florida residents, Disney has set aside a week in the off season to make it for adults. That each day, a different park would be closed off to kids. THEY BOUGHT IT! I asked them which Grama they wanted to come down and stay with them and they picked my mom. They are a little bummed about not going but, they are super excited that my mom will be here with them! Plus, I think they might be a little burnt out on Disney right now. I'll explain more about that later!
Keep a watch! I'll talk a little about our previous trips, a little about who we are and of course our plans for this trip!


This trip will be our first ever vacation for us. We have never done anything like this before and I think it will be a great chance to get to know each other again! In spite of everything that we have been through, there is something strong that keeps us together! 

I met my hubby at a party thrown by a friend, however we did talk because she was doing her level best to get us together. Then she told us we needed to slow down when we told her a month later we were engaged. 
He thought she was cute, but way too young, and wouldn't date her until she turned sixteen -- she called him on the phone just about every day until then, so that really slowed her down, sure.
Our 25th was this year, and they married a year later (after a much longer courtship!), so they're fast approaching their 25th wedding anniversary. 

), and I vividly remember the surgeon's discussion of the surgical procedure. *shudder* So glad that surgery is all over with for you, and that your son is clearly thriving. 
And then, in less than a year, it was suddenly totally doable!
Although it looks like, within the next year, it's going to be impossible again.
Have to see how that goes.
My kids always say that every story needs a Villian and I am theirs! Makes me think that I'm doing my job as a Mother right! They are 10 and 6 now and can't get away with anything. I usually wouldn't think twice about taking them with us, I feel like WDW is such a "family" place that it is almost a sin to leave them home. We just really, really need a trip away!
We spent the entire day at MK. I felt rushed the entire time though. My mother-in-law and S.I.L are such Disney pros that they had everything timed out. There was no real time to stop and really take in what I was seeing. If they didn't feel it was important, we didn't see it or do it. I actually had to sneak into the Dumbo line with AJ because they just wanted to skip right on by it!
I think my odds are pretty good -- it's supposed to be the park you "take slow" and good for rambling around (my preferred approach), and we're likely to get there the first time in January, so I don't expect heat will be a big issue. Not sure what I'll do if I hate the place, but I just hope that, if that happens, middle daughter won't think too much of it either!
We spent the next few months getting everything ready to go. Not an easy task when you have a special needs child!
We knew our dates, we knew our hotel, who was coming, how much money the kids had and where we were eating! We even had breakfast reservations made! Free dining was out and it was the last day to book when we finally managed to get it taken care of. WHEW! We were booked for November 27th to December 4th. 7 nights 6 days with tickets to
I'm the chunkster in the front wearing a tank top! This won't be the case for our Feb trip! I have plans to slim down some!
I worry about getting stopped on that one, but the rolling away fear is definitely more fun to imagine!
After we switched our dates to January, I called up my Florida-hating dad to see if he might be willing to come then, and he surprised me by saying, "I'll go if you can talk your mother into it." For a while there, I thought it was in the bag, because mom has always said she'd love to go.
But when it came right down to it, mom finally decided, "no," because she knows she can't take the walking. I pointed out that we don't go commando (my dad's a commando vacationer), plus I've got three teenagers who are willing and able to push her in a wheel chair (eldest daughter is willing but not able), or she could use an