Have you ever realized

[Lil_Tink]

that all your friends are complete backstabbers.
Let me start out.
Me and my boyfriend had a messy breakup. We had the same friends. Lets just say, they all left me for him. So I just realized my 'best' friends have decided to leave me for him. I don't mind if he is mad at me, but what really makes me mad is how he made all my friends turn against me. I have tried working things out and appoligizing for making him mad at me and he just ignores me and tells me to leave him alone. I have a few of friends from this group who weren't at close who have stayed with me, but I can't handle it being my fault that everyone is mad at eachother. And I know my ex, he won't care and won't fix anything. Thank god school is over in two months.


UPDATE!

He has a new girl friend. She looks just like me its kind of scary. But, she is a totally well lets just say very open with lots of boys so its his lose

 

[pride4pride]

i'm so sorry. really don't know how u feel but the people that stayed and always listened to you are you real friends, remeber that. Have a great day!

 

[Babyjustrun]

My friends were all nasty little you know what's in .. grade six.
That was a long time ago.
Things have changed.
I don't particularly like to have people too close, because when I'm on the outs with them, another friend likes to play a double agent and just pisses me off more.
She likes to fuel hatred and she'll get me to say something nasty about someone I'm arguing with, then she tells that girl what I said, and gets her to say something mean that she ends up telling me -.-

 

[BabyPiglet]

I had friends like that once. *hugs*

 

[MuNkY]

Yes. 8th grade. Ugh.

 

[CastawayJ]

thats how it was at my old school

 

[Mickey1122]

That's horrible. One of my friends (a year younger since she's in 10th grade) was in a similar position. Some of her 10th grade friends weren't all that great.

 

[BandGeek911]

I'm so sorry.
Real friends should be there for you threw thick and threw thin right? :[[

 

[CastawayJ]

but with a diferent reason all my friends were mad at me

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

um. yeah. i kinda realize what your feeling. just not cuz of a boyfriend. just cuz they're backstabbing little ******.


just don't get me started on it.

 

[CastawayJ]

im willing to bet its because of the school you go to if stuff like this happens

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

I hate backstabbers.

 

[CastawayJ]

agreed

 

[SplshMtnLvr28]

Aww. Sorry about that.

I have two friends that I know would never stab me in the back - I tell them a lot more then I tell my other friends. But on the other hand, one of our friends is being a huge b**** lately, and after something at prom last night, she's pretty much shunned by one of my friends, haha.

So yeah, she's been emailing all day about how much she hates her.

 

[Gone Disney]

School over in 2 months!!


this is when I get out->

 

[Lil_Tink]

Thanks. I guess I really just realized who my true friends are and how immature my ex is.

 

[mystic_path]

Real friends never ever take sides, and if they were smart they would stay out of the situation between you and your boyfriend. Friends dont meddle with their friends relationships as this as it usually has absoloutly nothing to do with them. The friends that say with you are the smart ones. Hang onto them!

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

mystic-i LOVE your sig.


mmaky anyway. yeahhh but sometimes it's hard to just leave your friends. cough cough I DID THAT THOUGH cough cough. now some of them just pretty much annoy the crap out of me because i know what they're capable of.

plus i still don't know "what i did wrong" to make them not like me.

 

[Lil_Tink]

Today things were better.
My ex still didn't sit there because it would apparently be 'akward'.
I'm going to give him time, and had fun with my real friends today.
Maybe ill still have those 'friends' as just people to hang out with
and if not
oh well.
I'll update if he ever 'forgives' me

 

[eeyore.luver<3]

awww...thats horrible!!!!

ive been in a few situations like tht, and my mom tells me:
"at least now u know who ur REAL friends are"

its such a mom thing to say, but its true...and i know it still sux cuz it feels like ur alll alone and ur world is falling apart...but if u have friends like tht, it was bnound to happen some day

it happened to me once last year and i felt miserable waking up and coming to school every day...but this year i have a whole new set of friends that wont do tht to me...


just remember: everything happens for a reason...i think ur reason is to find diff. friends or get closer to the ones who stuck by you