Has this ever happened to you?

[Cinderelli16]

Okay so, yesterday I went to a graduation party for my dad's friend's son. This is actually my dad's best friends son, and my friend, and I had the biggest crush on him, a couple summers ago. He use to come up-north to our property with his family for the 4th of July, and hang out with us for a week. Gosh at the time I thought I was in love with him or something even though he is 2 years older than me, and he definately didn't think that way about me, he only thought of me as his "little sister". The last time I actually seen him face to face was almost 2 years ago, but I use to talk to him on myspace until I deleted it. Then yesterday, I finally seen him, and talked to him face to face, and I was actually pretty happy to see him, although I didn't have the same feelings for him as I did before, and he wasn't as cute either. But then later on today I find out from my brother (who is friends with him) that he kinda likes me, and he said I was really pretty now, and that I've really changed. I mean I could kinda tell yesterday because he was staring at me, and showing off playing basketball. But I was wondering if this has happened to anyone else. Like have you ever had a crush on someone who didn't like you back, but then later on they have crush on you, and you didnt like them back? Just wondering.

 

[DisGirlAllie]

forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest

 

[Cinderelli16]

forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest

isn't that the truth lol

 

[Mr. Grumpy Gills]

I actually had a very similar thing happen to me.

I liked this guy, Jace, for the longest time. We were good friends and were always hanging out together. "His friends were friends with my friends" kind of thing. Then a couple years ago, he moved. Before he moved, I told him that I had a crush on him (great timing, huh??) but he said he only liked me as a friend, and he wanted to keep in touch. I was hopeful still (young and naive much?) so I kept in contact with him. Then, that summer, he spent a couple weeks at my best guy friend's house. We met up again and he said that while he was away, he realized that he liked me too. My feelings kinda dwindled at this point, but once he said that, I had a massive crush on him again. So we started dating, but that I realized that I didn't like him that way. We both kinda saw it at the same time. So we ended it, he left again, and I haven't really spoken to him since. It was really awkward. But a good learning experience!

 

[Sparx]

actually, i've had it kinda the opposite.
they liked me, but i didn't like them.
then i started liking them.

 

[reminisce]

actually, i've had it kinda the opposite.
they liked me, but i didn't like them.
then i started liking them.

ive actually had it go both ways. no matter how it plays out, its really unfortunate.

 

[STOPxmickeytime]

Yeah, I had like Shelby did.
It's wayyy more painful that way, IMO.

 

[wilmabride'sdaughter]

When i went to Middlesbrough i met this boy called Josh and i really liked him but not majorly(sp?). I think he liked me a lot as he was always super nice to me we swapped numbers and msn and we got along really well and he kept asking me wether i was single and such other things. I wasn't. Now that i am single and i think back the the time we had in Middlesbrough i am starting to really get to like him he still asks me when im going back and saying how we should meet up but he doesn't seem interested in me anymore.

Arggh isn't life such a complicating matter.

 

[Cinderelli16]

When i went to Middlesbrough i met this boy called Josh and i really liked him but not majorly(sp?). I think he liked me a lot as he was always super nice to me we swapped numbers and msn and we got along really well and he kept asking me wether i was single and such other things. I wasn't. Now that i am single and i think back the the time we had in Middlesbrough i am starting to really get to like him he still asks me when im going back and saying how we should meet up but he doesn't seem interested in me anymore.

Arggh isn't life such a complicating matter.

Oh gosh it is, it's not fair sometimes. It just frustrates me. Grrr

 

[MrsSparrow..]

I have a similiarish thing. Like, except I'm screwed Lol. I liked this guy, then didn't, then he liked me and he asked me out and I said yes because I thought "It'll work out, I used to like him so why can't I now?". Boy, was I wrong. Now I'm with a guy I don't wanna be with and never find the right time to brake it off I feel evil lol.

But life is very cruel and weird.

 

[Babyjustrun]

That doesn't happen to me.
Guys don't like me.
And if they have ever been guys that have, I've never been told.

 

[Cinderelli16]

That doesn't happen to me.
Guys don't like me.
And if they have ever been guys that have, I've never been told.

Awww don't say that, I'm sure someone out there likes you, but is just too shy to say anything.

 

[CastawayJ]

sounds like a jacob thing

 

[TinkerTracy]

Haha yeah that's happened to me before. And I agree with the statement of the first poster.