For two of our biggest trips (Sedona/Grand Canyon and London/South Africa - both of which I planned 100% by myself), I did look at the
ABD itineraries to get ideas, but I didn’t want to move around as often as they did. I wanted to stay longer in each place versus cover more ground. We stayed in Sedona for 6 nights with a timeshare trade and did 2 nights in GC at El Tovar. We saw lots of Native American ruins, went to a cowboy cookout at Blazin’ M Ranch, went tubing on the Verde River, swam at Buddha Beach, did a Pink Jeep tour, the guys played golf, and we did lots of ranger talks in GC.
On our London/SA combo trip, we did 3 days in London (with lots of the same activities that are on the short London ABD - double decker bus tour, Tower of London with Crown Jewels and beefeater tour, Thames River cruise, rock and roll walking tour, Evensong at Westminster Abbey, Churchill’s War Room, lots of pubs). Then we did 9 days in South Africa staying at 3 different places in the greater Kruger area (Protea Hazyview Hotel 5 nights, Tamboti Tented Camp 2 nights, Shindzela Tented Camp 2 nights). We didn’t do Cape Town or Victoria Falls because our focus was on safaris, and we didn’t have the money in the budget to cover all the extra in country flights that kind of itinerary would require. While in Hazyview, we hired a private guide through Kurt Safari for a morning game drive and an afternoon game drive. We had the jeep all to ourselves! We also did the Panorama Route one day, did a cultural dinner and show at Shaangan River Club one evening, and spent a morning at the Elephant Santuary while our guys golfed. Tamboti was a SA national park camp, so we did our morning and sunset game drives through Sanparks while there. We shared a jeep with 5 other people on both those drives. Shindzela was a private “classic” safari camp, which included all our game drives and 3 meals a day. On 3 of the 4 game drives we had there, my family had the jeep all to ourselves. It was an amazing trip, and by moving around the greater Kruger area, we saw so many animals and in such huge numbers - way more than if we’d just stayed in one location for 2-3 days of safari like many of the big tour company trips I looked at.
Like I said earlier, we did not have a huge budget for our London/South Africa trip. For my family of 4 (me, DH, DS22, DD20), we spent $12,000 total including flights, rental car, lodging, food, game drives and other activities. With 2 kids in college, an ABD was never gonna happen for us!
A few years back, DH won an amazing work rewards trip to Jackson Hole/Grand Teton NP. His company put us up in the Four Seasons and had several activities to chose from each day. We did a gondola ride up the mountain to a wine dinner, had a private event with dinner and a band at the Million Dollar Cowboy Bar, did a wildlife safari into Grand Teton and a raft trip on the Snake River. Everything was first class. We loved it! He also won similar trips to Naples, FL and St Thomas, USVI; both at Ritz Carlton hotels. Because of these trips, I do see why folks so enjoy the ABD trips where everything is planned out and taken care of for you. It was very nice to just show up and enjoy!