Every trip I have taken to Disney World has been magical. I have stayed at PORFQ twice (and love it there), the Swan once (teacher discount), and off property several times. When I have gone in the summer, it always was hot and crowded....just like at home, so I expected it to be that way. We sweated, got tired, and still enjoyed every minute of it. The year I was there a few days before Christmas was every cold, but it still was great to be at Disney and to see all of the Christmas decorations. We just remembered how hot it always was on summer visits and enjoyed not sweating. We were there exactly one month after 9/11, and the magic still was there and greatly appreciated after the somber and scary airport experiences with such tight security.
Yes, Disney World has changed some in the past few years, but the world has changed. It is unbelievable how disrespectful many people have become, but they are the same way at home. I don´t understand why people throw trash on the ground, change baby diapers on the table in restaurants, feel they have the right to break in line, etc., but I can control only the behavior of my family and myself. Most of the complaints people have about Disney World are not Disney´s fault. No one promised you a perfect vacation with ideal weather, a pristine hotel, food prepared exactly the way you want it and served the second you are ready for it, or only beautiful,considerate and kind people in the parks...all speaking only English. Be happy you are on vacation and make the best of the circumstances you find yourself in. Enjoy what you have instead of constantly wanting everything to be perfect. Be grateful that you can afford to take your family to Disney World and cut back a little if your budget is stretched too thin. You don´t have to buy everything you see, you don´t have to stay for 2 weeks, and you don´t have to eat in the more expensive restaurants every night. Instead of complaining about things you can´t control, be grateful that you are able to take a vacation.