justhat
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I have been reading every post on this thread from the day it started. Just a few thoughts.
Why do you have to cancel anything at all? Keep your plans and check the schedule for the Clubs when you board. If they conflict, talk to Palo or the Spa reps about adjusting the time because of the Kids' Clubs schedule. Or, have your child go to whatever club has secured programming during that time. Will the time there be perfect? Maybe, maybe not, but they are getting time to play without their parents in a fun place on a cruise ship on vacation. Every child should be so lucky.
If this were done during normal club hours, there are still adults in the room with children that they are not related to who have not authorized this. This is a problem.
But what about the other children in there at the time whose parents did not authorize for another parent to be in with their child? Just because someone is a parent to one child does not mean that every parent wants them around their own children.
What if someone without kids wanted to come in and make Flubber? Is that okay? They are just there for a little bit. It is in their best interest. It's happening on the cruise ship. Why shouldn't THEY be able to stay? (Yes, the answer is: Because they don't have a kid in the kid's club. But moreso, because there is no reason for them to be around other people's children inside the kids' clubs. Same is true with someone who has a child. There is no reason for them to be around other people's children INSIDE the kids' clubs.
That is the incident people here on DIS know about, but no one knows if there was something else that caused this change. As for non-parents, why shouldn't they be allowed? They paid for a cruise too. If a parent can be around someone else's kids why can't a non-parent? (Yes, I'm playing devil's advocate.)
Then have your kids be in whichever club they can at the time you want alone time. Or, change your alone time. Again, the kids are on vacation, on a cruise ship, in a place to play and have fun. Life should be so wonderful for every child on Earth.
We planned our vacation for our MR cruise. Then a hurricane decided to arrive. Our ENTIRE itinerary changed moments before stepping foot on the ship. Sea days were port days. Palo brunches had to be moved. Spa appointments were now on days when activities we enjoyed were happening. Ports we knew nothing about were now part of our vacation. EVERY element of "the plan" was shot out the window. And you know what? Disney assisted with shifting things, rearranging plans, helping with options, and we had an amazing time. Including a wonderful anniversary dinner at Palo on a night different than our original reservation.It was a great week - not at all as we planned, but fantastic!
Or... talk to Palo management and try to shift your dinner, explaining that the Kids Clubs changes made it necessary to do so.
Again, make your plans. See how it meshes with the schedule once you board and then go talk to spa or Palo management as needed. Unless you are in Palo every night and at the spa every day, it should not be that big of a deal. Honestly. They understand and help when/how they can.
Yes. There is a nominal fee, but additional wave phones are available.
I have seen it mentioned a few times that this may be a cost cutting measure, so this is not aimed at you, just a general question. How would this save DCL costs? The Youth Activities' staff are on contracts and paid a salary, not hourly. So I don't understand how this saves money for DCL at all. Maybe I'm missing it, though.
Remember folks, it's play time on a cruise ship on a wonderful vacation. It's a good thing.
- Dreams
Excellent post. I couldn't agree more.
No, it is not about me. Did you read the post I was replying to? She was talking about what worked for her and her family and essentially saying we should all just fly by the seat of our pants like she does because it works for her. I was pointing out that it DOESN'T work for me. I never, ever said that everything should be engineered to work specifically for me. I don't know where you are getting that or how you think you can assume anything g about what I am or am not teaching my child. You don't know me. I was simply pointing out that HER way is not the only way, and there needs to be a solution that works for the majority of people. The only way to reach that is for families to voice what is or isn't working for them. I don't see anything wrong with that.
I never said my child should not have to compromise??? What I said was that she shouldn't have to be shoved into an overcrowded club without age appropriate activities to accommodate a few families. I stand by that. There has to be a better solution. I have said multiple times that I am not opposed to open houses, but I feel that the way they are currently being done is a poor choice and definitely could be improved. Again, I don't see what is wrong with expressing that???
Did someone say they don't make any plans and just fly by the seat of their pants? I mean, we all belong to these boards cause we like to plan ahead and learn. I think some people are just suggesting to approach your vacation with flexibility.
Even if palo is sold out, which it is for my cruise, and actually was before the platinum window ended as I booked towards the end of the window and had a very limited selection, you can often make changes on board without issue. Especially of your board early. And spa stuff is even easier to move around
Oh PLEASE tell me this is true!!!
DH and I have wanted to make Flubber and bake cooking with the chef for 3 cruises now. Please say it's so!
- Dreams
I just realized, weren't you on my 10/11 mr cruise? I think I remember you gave a TON of fe stuff! Thanks again! (assuming that was you)