My dh is currently deployed. He gets one week to be home between his training period in NC and his 10 month "vacation" in Afghanistan. He is supposed to be home between the 16th and 23rd of October and we want to spend that time at Disneyland. He will be missing Halloween this year, so we were going to buy tickets for the Halloween Party at Disneyland. The thing is, there is only one date that we could attend, the 17th, which is the day after he is supposed to fly home. We are told the dates are "firm" but you can't really believe anything the military tells you. there is no return or exchange policy for the tickets. Is the party such a "must do" that it is worth risking losing that money if they don't bring him home when they say they will?