We just had a similar problem with the Sheraton in Boston (NOT
DVC in oh, so many ways). Travelling with 4 kids- need two 2-queen bed rooms, adjoining or connecting. All of this (the kids, the bed request) stated on reservation, also that would be arriving LATE. Get there- room assignment is two king rooms, both HA on the 9th and 21st floor in different towers- oh, and because they were HA, a roll away bed won't fit! Notice that this is a bed for 4 people, not 6 (I love my children dearly, but didn't want to get too close to them on this trip!).
Now for the staff training issue: The check in staffperson tells us to just put the 4 kids in one bed in one room and take the other for us (remember these are 12 floors apart in different towers- and our kids are DDs 16, 12,and 6, and DS 8). When I inform her this is illegal (and you thought leaving your kids in a DVC childcare started a debate!) she whispers that she won't tell anyone, it will just be our little secret. Now, if I had intended to do this for even a moment, can you even IMAGINE all 4 kids (especially the 16 year old) in one king bed? I can only imagine the occupancy debate that this would start!
Needless to say, after 1 hour of demanding that at minimum we have enough beds for 6 people listed on the reservation, the manager found us two connecting rooms on the concierge floor (now I am hearing the voices of the evil upgrade debate!) I did leave a nice note about the courtesy from the manager - but suggested that hotel staff might want to brush up on child-protective services law!
We leave for BWV in 9 days- it HAS to be better than this!