I always find it hard to post on such threads because people think I sound heartless. But I'm not.
With this, though, I've been stepping out more and more, because I fear for people following the "rules" on this.
In my circles, at least, it's pretty well known that, for instance, chicken pox became scary as western medicine wanted to fight the symptoms. It itches, make it stop. Tehre are red marks, make it stop. Fever, make it stop, and so on. Finally the virus was "pushed" so far down into the body that it became deadly, while before it was just a big ol' bunch of nothing. So now people are scared of it, when tey should really be scared of the AMA's response to just knock down the symptoms one by one.
And that's what I feel I'm seeing when people write about their experiences, or friends' experiences or those of friends of friends, but no one is seeing it, so I'm speaking up.
It's pretty well known, as well, that the 1918 flu was dealt with FAR better by people receiving homeopathic help rather than other types of help. I feel that's because it is finding a specific remedy, based on your exact picture (personality, physical self, and current symptoms), rather than a one size fits all approach. And it just pushes the body into helping itself gently, rather than slamming it with help like echinacea, etc (which normally I am happy with) sending it into the "cytokine storm".
From what I understand, the virus is able to get into the lungs deeper, causing the lungs to be more susceptible to the virus and also to bacteria, so secondary bacterial pneumonias hit hard, such as MRSA pneumonia.
And I worry that the overuse of antibiotics is helping cause this. My son is in the middle of his very first prescription of antibiotics, and he's almost 5.5. With my friends' kids, they'd had something like 3 batches of that drug every year of their life... He is only taking them because he'd been sick for 2 weeks, got better, we went to DLR, his lymph nodes and tonsils swelled to the point of distorting his face and neck (and yes, I was thinking mumps), then I took him in to be swabbed (and they did bloodwork as well), he tested positive for strep (a 3 point something on a 0-4 scale). So he's taking them now. My husband hasn't had antibiotics in probably 20 years. I had them in '93 (for something someone thought I had, but my results came in on the last day of taking them, and I was negative) and then a massive dose "just in case" in '04. I haven't been "right" since that dose.
So you get someone who is sick, they go to the doctor and get in touch with lots and lots of currently sick, coughing, sneezing people, and it's no wonder they might get much much sicker after that.
The nurse at our hospital said "little people have little lungs,which is why they are dying".
This is not against you. This is against the nurse and her utterly ridiculous non-answer. If someone, including my NICU nurse stepmom, said that to me, they would get a glare along with "I am not a toddler, you're going to have to do better" type of response.
And since when is a perfectly normal, healthy pregnancy considered an "underlying health condition"? In all the years I've been around - even back when swine flu was here before - I never heard of women dying from it (or any other flu, for that matter) due to a healthy "pregnancy"..[/B][/I]
IMO, it's because pregnant women in America, in western cultures that I've noticed, are *treated* like they are dainty things that can't withstand anything.
My Korean MIL...except for wanting to make sure I was warm all the time, even my feet (b/c feet are related to the uterus in Korean culture, at least in her village of birth), pretty much felt I should be in the fields through my whole pregnancy. And ya know what? I would have been better for it.
When pg women get sick, people get scared. When health care people get scared, they start reaction from fear, and reacting from fear is never a good place to be. And it's especially scary when scared people are wanting to treat a pregnant woman. Same with an older pg woman. They are in greater danger because they are perceived to be in greater danger, and their caregivers treat them differently.
I have read several times on this thread of fevers that just wouldn't go away. And that sounds to me like the sick people, or their parents, are trying to make the fever go away. Why? Fever is doing good work. Fever is the body's natural response to reacting to a "bug" that is trying to take over. If the person is horribly uncomfortable, a tepid bath can cool the person down, give the person a respite...often that lets the body kick itself in and it will stay lower. Sometimes it will go back up; the work isn't yet done.
I am so so sorry for those who have died, but some of it, from my perspective, makes no sense. Convulsing with a fever of 104...why? 104 isn't that high. What else was going on?
In addition, why fight a cough? A cough is trying to get the crud OUT. Why stop that action? Won't that *cause* pneumonia? If you're fighting the cough, and not letting the stuff get out, where is it going? Where CAN it go? Nowhere. Is it hard to have a kidlet cough? Yes. YOu feel bad for them, you feel bad for yourself. If you have to work, you're in trouble, because even if you have a caregiver who will take sick kids, you're not getting much sleep. It's not fun. it's not fun if you do NOT work outside the home either, I can tell you that. But then the kidlet coughs up all the gunk bit by bit, their nose dries up bit by bit, it's over, bit by bit.
My great grandfather saw one of his 6 or 7 daughters, all living at home, through diphtheria. She was the only one in the home who got it (so much for it being very contagious). Every time her throat would start to grow the membrane, he put his finger in her mouth and swept it clear. Was he up with her night after night, by her side day after day? YES. Was it worth it? YES.
Also, these drugs...read the inactive ingredients. Corn syrup, high fructose corn syrup, artificial sweeteners, artificial dyes...we are putting even MORE junk in our bodies, as we try to stop the natural, normal, helpful response that the body is trying to create. The body is mounting a defense, and not only are we stopping it, we're putting crud in along with it. "take this pill and swallow it with a Coke" is what you do if you use Nyquil with HFCS (last time I checked the label). No one does that. That would be disgusting.
Always there will be exceptions. Even in my household, where health philosophy was one of the pillars of our relationship, there have been exceptions. Hubby went through a benign-but-growing-so-fast-he-"had"-6-months-to-live brain tumor, and healed it with extreme macrobiotics, juicing, enzymes, and hyperbaric chamber, all paid out of pocket a couple years before I met him...
I met him mere months after my mother died of bleeding out while in remission from leukemia, where her health care team had SCOFFED at her new symptoms that, when I heard them (and when my NICU nurse stepmom heard them...by the way, she and I diagnosed my mom with leukemia based on symptoms a month before it finally showed up on the tests) screamed "bleeding ulcer". She started coughing one morning, and that was it. A few minutes later, gone. Her doctors lied and wrote "leukemia" on her death certificate. Even though she was in remission. And hadn't died from it. Died from heparin and bleeding ulcer. The docs billed my stepdad...he wrote to them, explaining their reactions to her symptoms that she'd been complaining of, let them know that they caused her death and it was inappropriate to bill him for that last month of her care...never heard from them again.
So hubby and I met shortly after that. I was in awe. Now...has he always been able to act towards us the way he acted towards himself? No.
And right now, despite our issues with western medicine, he's taking one drug and injecting another. DS is taking antibiotics. But I found a compounding pharmacy to take the antibiotics out of the gelatin capsule and put them in a cellulose one. I refused to give him the liquid, as it's a reconstituted powder with color and flavor in it...and I bet sweetener, which likely means corn syrup solids...not going to happen. As I kill the bacteria in his body, I'm not going to harm it more with those things. So I got to pay out of pocket for 10 days of antibiotics, and it's worth it. We've researched the drugs heavily, hubby finally found a doc who listens to him and does what he/we say to do (without our insistence they NEVER would have done the tests to find his prolactinoma, despite clear signs the last 3 years), the drugs do what they say, there are minimal extra inactive ingredients...there's bending, but not a dumping of philosophy. Can't give DS cough medicine even if we wanted to because of corn syrup and artificial sweeteners...so we've learned to work with his body instead of against it.
Just...think before you quash symptoms. The body is trying to work...let it be.