Guys Are soo Clueless!!!

[CarelAshley]

Yesterday this guy that ive liked for a while asked me to band banquet which i wanted but he said if this other girl says no he'll go with me seriously you just dont say that
ever since that he hasnt talked to me idk i just need to talk to him but im waiting for him to call me ot txt

ughh so frustrating

 

[Cassidy]

just say no.
that means your like in second place if he ever gets tired of the other girl.
thats like, stupid.

 

[PAdisney1995]

just say no.
that means your like in second place if he ever gets tired of the other girl.
thats like, stupid.

Id do the same

 

[HouseMD1120]

Say no.
As tempting as it is to go with the guy you like, he obviously doesnt like you as much as you like him (no offense). He shouldn't have even told you that he would go with you if someone else said no; he should have just waited.

 

[DramaGirl]

He'll just break your heart, honey. Anyone deserves better than being some guy's second choice, even if you think he's a god. You'll find someone who thinks just as much of you as you do of him.

 

[JarethDrakul]

I also agree say No to him, he's obviously using you as a back up when this other girl turns him down. I don't think anyone really wants to be with someone who considered them 2nd place to some other person

 

[Shelton123]

That guy was a sexist *******. Guys don't know what to say! That's why I'm straight.

 

[CarelAshley]

yea i guess yall are right but doesnt it atleast count that he asked???
cause thats what half of my friends say the other half say they really wanna go roll his house or hurt him lol

is it that big of a deal

but i really really like him and i do need to have respect for myself and i think he shouldnt have told me that i was his second but hes just really weird lol

 

[disneygal2007]

I'm not a teen. But your post caught my eye. Sweets don't be second choice. You are worth more then that. Don't let any guy make you feel less then what you are. Hold your head up high and walk right past him as if he were the dirt off the bottom of your shoe.

 

[DramaGirl]

For all you know, he could be using you just to make her jealous. I hope everything works out

 

[JarethDrakul]

^^That is a good point.

I know it may feel nice that he is considering it esp. if you like him, but and I'm really sorry for sound so cruel he obviosuly is abit of a.....something.....to just treat you like this, I mean if this other person says yes that means he's saying no to you. You can do alot better than that