Let's see...I've been a groomsman in 3 weddings now.
First wedding, i got an engraved hip flask.
Next one, I got a monogrammed travel humidor stocked with 4 cigars
Most recently, i got a nice Cross pen embossed with my last name, as well as a monogrammed metal cigar tube with a smoke inside.
For our wedding, I'm still torn. I'm thinking about either a lighter or a waiter's corkscrew....in case you can't tell, my crew loves to drink and smoke cigars. I also ran across some really nice cocktail shakers.
Other things i've seen are pocket watches, money-clips, and cuff-links. I'd recommend steering you (or your future husbands) away from those idea. Pocket watches aren't something most guys would use on a regular basis, money clips are a personal preference, and aside from guys that wear french cuffs, most men will rarely have a need for cuff-links.
www.elighters.com has some good gift ideas...much more than just lighters
