Grin and Bear It - Day 7, I'm Going Home!

harmony29

Nothing satisfies a longing like a dachshund!
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Myself - 35 year old single gal, celebrating that it's my last day
Jane Smith - 62 year old who's fed up with me

Today I awakened knowing by the end of the day I would be back in my own bed with my long dog and not having to deal with Jane's grumpiness. I got up and showered and started getting all my things together. On the news they were reporting that a storm was coming over the Mid-West and would hit by mid-afternoon, causing 60-90 minute delays. My stomach just dropped when I heard this, I could not fathom spending one more minute with Jane that I didn't have to. I suggested that we take an earlier flight and go stand by, since our flight wasn't until 7pm that night. We really had nothing planned for today, I was going to go to Downtown Disney to check it out, but that could always be left for another time. Jane was not too pleased about me wanting to leave early, but I just told her I could not risk having another 3 1/2 hour delay like on the way down, as I had to go to work the next day. I packed up and said I would meet her in the lobby. A half hour later she finally came down. We had to make a stop back at the Crowne Plaza Universal, as Jane had left her cell phone charger in the room, this ended up taking almost a half hour, I couldn't believe it. We had plenty of time, it was just annoying after everything I had been through earlier in the week. Finally we were off to the airport. I turned in our car and told Jane I was going to go ahead and get in line to see about stand by, as I knew she couldn't walk that fast. The airport was a mad house, but the NW counter only had two people ahead of me. So I stood and waited and waited and waited some more. There was only one counter agent and he was tied up with 2 women traveling with 5 children, whatever was going on it was taking forever. The lady in front of me offered to switch places, since her flight wasn't until later, which I thought was very kind. Jane was getting pretty uptight about the wait and was becoming vocal. I warned her when we got up to the desk to please stay quiet, as we are at the mercy of the counter agent. She did not take too kindly to this and told me she knows better than to say anything (oh really, that's why you showed restraint all week!) Finally made it to the counter and explained that we wanted to try for stand by, the agent was a real smart a***, saying that's what he just did for the ladies ahead of me and why it took so long. He then had the nerve to ask me why I made such a late flight if I knew I wanted to go earlier. That was my last straw, I blew. I was nice, but very firm and told him that I didn't appreciate his tone and what he was asking, he came back with a smart remark and I said well I'm not getting stuck here with the weather coming ARGHH!!!! He did finally come through and confirmed us on the 11:45am flight, not even stand by, so something I said must have worked. It was about 10:45 at this point, so we didn't have much time to get through security and to the gate. Made it through and on the tram to the terminal. Of course our gate was pretty far away and a long walk. I had to stop and get something to eat for on the plane (I hadn't eaten anything), so Jane kept going as she was tired and wanted to sit down. Got to the gate and called home to let them know I'd be home early. Within 5 minutes they were pre-boarding. I suggested to Jane that she may want to ask them about pre-boarding due to her difficulties. She took off without a word and I never saw her again until I got on the plane. I could not believe she went and boarded and never even told me, I was ticked. Luckily we were not seated together, so I got some relief for the trip home. The flight was short and we landed at 2:30pm into Detroit. Jane took off again and never waited for me. When I entered the terminal I saw her requesting a wheel chair. She asked me if I wanted one, I looked at her and said no, so she pulled an attitude that she had to have one. Well yes, I understand that, but it doesn't mean I need one. Took the long walk to the ground transportation to pick up our shuttle. Next mishap - Jane couldn't find our parking slip that said where the car was, I knew I shouldn't had given it to her. Finally found my car and headed for home. It wasn't soon enough that I dropped Jane off at home, I let out a good scream as I pulled away. Pulled in my driveway at 5pm and gave long dog kisses and hugs.

I certainly learned a lot from this trip; 1) Never travel with someone you don't know really well 2) There's nothing wrong with traveling alone 3) Always stay on property (I'll never go back to off again) 4) And next time use my common sense before I plan a trip like this!
 
I wanted to thank you for your reports, I've really enjoyed reading them. As someone who has had a WDW vacation tainted by unhappy people, I wish you tons and tons of :wizard: pixie dust that you have an exceptional next visit.
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I really enjoyed your trip report. I have to commend you on how you handled yourself. We're always going to meet difficult people and how you dealt with her speaks volumes about you as a person.

Ignore any negative feedback you get from Jane Smith. Most reasonable people will see for themselves who has the real problem. ;)

May your next trip be all this one wasn't.
 

The question is, are you going to travel with her in the future?? Didn't you say in an earlier report you were going somewhere with your church (and her) in the future?? Maybe it wouldn't be so bad if you're with a group. Just for putting up with her you should get a free trip to WDW! You're a trooper!
 
crzy4mickey said:
The question is, are you going to travel with her in the future?? Didn't you say in an earlier report you were going somewhere with your church (and her) in the future?? Maybe it wouldn't be so bad if you're with a group. Just for putting up with her you should get a free trip to WDW! You're a trooper!

I wondered the same thing. I guess this means no trip for the two of you together in the future!

Thanks for the reports!
 
I have enjoyed your trip reports and I am sorry that your time was clouded by someone as obnixous as Jane. You did a great job "grinining and bearing it" though and you seemed to have made the best of a bad situation.

I am sure you are looking forward to your return trip sans Jane.

Thanks again
 
I loved reading your trip reports. How could anyone be SO cranky in such a happy place? Seriously, what a sad place to be at.

Your reports made me chuckle and roll my eyes at this woman I don't even know. hehe I'm sorry your trip was filled with a cranky partner, but it seems you got some good old Disney fun in. :)

How was she when she said goodbye in the car at the end? Was she the least bit appreciative?
 
I can say with an emphatic NO that I will not be traveling with her again. The trip to Europe was going to be her and I. She wanted to tour the country by car, I wanted to do a river barge cruise, so that right there should have told me no.

As for when I dropped her off, she said thank you, but that's about it. I am a bit bummed because I used so many hotel points for this trip with someone that did not appreciate it, but oh well, live and learn and there will be a next time hopefully before the end of the year.
 
at the happiest place on Earth. Your restraint and self control could teach us all a thing or two.

I too have travelled with someone when I shouldn't have. Even went so far as to do it a second time. First time, she locked me out of our hotel room in Austria to hook up w/ some guy. Second time, she left me high and dry in Copenhagen. Believe me, that flight home was no fun.

Fortunately for me, I have my dh, sons and mother to travel with. But if all else failed, I think I would go myself before asking anyone else again.

Hope you can find a way to get there before the end of the year.
 
Are u going to be posting any pics? Did u take any pics of Jane? Just curious as to what she looks like.
 
I read a couple of your later reports and got drawn into the drama, then had to go back and start reading from the beginning. Wow. My thoughts: First, the difference in your ages was probably a risky proposition to start with. Second, you didn't know her very well, so that was risky, too. I give you credit for being willing to travel with someone under those circumstances, especially considering you were paying for a lot of the trip. It's easy for someone to offer advice when they didn't have to live through your experiences, but I really think you did neither of you any favor by holding your tongue and ignoring her rude behavior. I think after the first couple of out breaks you should have taken her aside and said something like, "Jane, I am shocked at your behavior. Having known you from church I assumed you would know that intollerance, bitterness, complaining, and unforgiveness are the exact opposite qualities we should show people. Not only is it the wrong way to act, but holding those feelings is very unhealthy for you. I came here to have a restful happy vacation, and if that's not why you came, maybe it would be best if you see if you can schedule any early flight home." She would have been upset, but maybe she would have felt guilty for her unChristian-like behavior and reformed enough that you could have had a better time. You tried to spare her feelings, but she ended up annoyed with you, anyway. I am really sorry you had to go through this since you seem like a really nice person. Best Wishes!
 
Yes, as soon as I get the pictures developed I will post them. As for traveling with Jane, I had wanted to see how we traveled together before we took a big trip to Europe together, thank goodness I did, I would never have survived.
 
I have enjoyed reading your tale of who NOT to bring to the happiest place on Earth! Hoping your next trip is 100% better! :) ;)
 
:cool1: Finally you are home. I was really into this story and I just had to read it. I hope your next trip will be with a really good friend or by yourself. When you go back to WDW please post I like the way you told your story.
Here is a group hug for you doing a wonderful job with jane :grouphug:
have a wonderful time planning your next trip. Take care
 
Hi, Thanks for your reports. I am going to travel soon with my family. I know that it can be difficult at times and I am going to take some alone time as you did . I hope your next trip to Disney is better. ::MickeyMo
 
I enjoyed your report....I have to say you were a good sport! As my nephew would say, Jane seems to "have issues"......
 















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