I am grateful for my DH, even if he is slumped over at the far end of the couch, snoring. My DSis is having a horrible, painful time right now. My BIL, her husband of 20 years, came out this fall, telling her he's always been gay and has left her and my two nieces (14 and 11) for his "new love." I am thankful that my DH doesn't lie to me, doesn't deceive me, and loves me, even though I am SO not perfect. After 26 years of marriage, sometimes I think the flame is flickering, sputtering, dimming, but after this year I know, in my heart of hearts, that he still loves me as much as I love him... and for this I am deeply, humbly thankful.