Bearvet
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This is going to be a hectic few months with lots of major events happening. I'd love suggestions on $ amounts (or gift ideas) for the following:
1. My best friend's son is getting married June 16 and I know they could use money. Although we aren't directly related, they've been like our "local" family for the past 20 years. How much $ to give?
2. Their daughter (we're even closer to her) is graduating from college with a degree in elementary education. Again, I think cash would probably be most appreciated. How much to give her?
3. My oldest DS is graduating from high school in June, so he'll also have lots of friends graduating too. We'll (our family) will probably be invited to his closest friends' parties and don't mind giving a more generous gift to these kids (2 or 3 of his closest friends). How much is appropriate?
4. DS will most likely have many other graduation parties to go to - should he bring a gift? If so, what or how much money? If we are also invited, we'd definitely give something - but how much??
5. My cousin's daughter will also graduate from high school and we're fairly close. We will probably travel to attend her party (7 hours away) - how much should we give her? I know she's saving up for a car.....
6. Another cousin's son is having his Bar Mitzvah soon - it will be at a very expensive hotel on the ocean. We're not terribly close, but will attend. We're not Jewish and I'm not sure how much $ is appropriate to give (when DS has gone to friend's Bar Mitzvahs he's give $36 which is double 18 which is a lucky number). Any ideas? Luckily this one isn't until the Fall (we got a "save the date" card).
I wish I could say that money is no object, but it adds up quickly. So, any ideas on $ amounts to give for these occasions? Thanks!
1. My best friend's son is getting married June 16 and I know they could use money. Although we aren't directly related, they've been like our "local" family for the past 20 years. How much $ to give?
2. Their daughter (we're even closer to her) is graduating from college with a degree in elementary education. Again, I think cash would probably be most appreciated. How much to give her?
3. My oldest DS is graduating from high school in June, so he'll also have lots of friends graduating too. We'll (our family) will probably be invited to his closest friends' parties and don't mind giving a more generous gift to these kids (2 or 3 of his closest friends). How much is appropriate?
4. DS will most likely have many other graduation parties to go to - should he bring a gift? If so, what or how much money? If we are also invited, we'd definitely give something - but how much??
5. My cousin's daughter will also graduate from high school and we're fairly close. We will probably travel to attend her party (7 hours away) - how much should we give her? I know she's saving up for a car.....
6. Another cousin's son is having his Bar Mitzvah soon - it will be at a very expensive hotel on the ocean. We're not terribly close, but will attend. We're not Jewish and I'm not sure how much $ is appropriate to give (when DS has gone to friend's Bar Mitzvahs he's give $36 which is double 18 which is a lucky number). Any ideas? Luckily this one isn't until the Fall (we got a "save the date" card).
I wish I could say that money is no object, but it adds up quickly. So, any ideas on $ amounts to give for these occasions? Thanks!