Here is a link to the nearby hotels
http://www.geocities.com/ashpsyche/DisneylandLinkMap.html
I have not yet been to
disneyland in my adult life (going in April) so I can only tell you what I have learned from this board and my own research.
I have not researched any hotel not on Harbour...
Desert Inn and Suites-- micro and fridge and small (juice/coffee, muffin) breakfast, small indoor pool
Best Western Park Place Inn--- micro fridge breakfast pool (small if my memory servers)
tropicana- 1 item breakfast, pool
Howard johnson- micor, fridge, outdoor water play area for kids, pool, hot tub
I hope this is somewhat help for you...
Just take some time and click on all the l ink from the map and take notes. Sorry, I wish I had more specific info for you