In Ohio, they have really pushed a 50/50 concept of custody, called Shared Parenting. Maybe it is my upbringing that leaves me with this pov:
Why, when 2 people dont want to be married anymore, do they drag the children into it? I mean, just because you want to divorce the person, why does it mean that the other spouse is now not qualified, or loses their right, to raise their children? I just dont get it. Getting divorced and custody, imo, are two totally different issues.
IMO, the person who files the custody suit should be the one scrutinized, because now, not only are they unable to maintain their marriage, but now they are openly admitting that they are unable to co-parent.
I just dont get it. Maybe its just me, but it sounds sometimes, and awful lot like "your mother/father did me wrong, and now you cant see them anymore."