I too suggest the 9 hole course.... My hubby is a good golfer, I am a new golfer (nuf said lol) You will be tolerated there much more at the 9 hole than the 18 hole courses.... Esp the $$ ones. Nothing frustrates a golfer more (other than whiffing a ball) than to be stuck behind (passing is not always an option if the course if full) really not very good golfers

ESP at a $$$$ courses! LOL
Here are some other things that bug my husband....
When you have made it on the green.... drop your golf bag on the back side of the green near the next walkway, before you putt.... He hates waiting any longer than he has too(can you tell) but to then have to wait the 30 seconds while the person who is done golfing to walk back around to the front of the green to get their bag. Turns my husbands ears RED! He mumbles something about common curtisy......... lol
Second... remember this is only a game .... if your stuck behind a tree or in the rough and ya cant make a good shot.... toss the ball onto the fairway.... heck even place it on a tee for your second shot (or in my case sometimes 3rd shot lol) At this stage of the game (or lack of

) just being out there hacking away is pure fun.... dont make it hard on yourselves. It really helps to keep the pace up. AND I mihgt add, makes for a fun round of golf! Less frustration more good ball wacks!
ONLY use a mully when there isnt another 4some behind you <grin> If no one is behind you take a couple of shots of the tee and play your best shot..... I live for that one long drive I get every 5 or 6 hits off the tee! ROFLMBO
With all that said have a blast! I cant wait for our first golfing adventure there......