Your best bet would be to go to a designers thread and look through the shared files, photobuckets, etc. YES it will take awhile, but you will get to see everything that is out there. I'd do that before making request - especially if you don't know what you want.
A tip - when you do make a request - be as specific as possible, it makes your designers life a whole lot easier...........LOL -- it's no fun having to change a design that you didn't get just right because the requester wasn't specific - or rather left something out................. I'm NOT trying to be snarky - PLEASE don't think that..........but I for example often times will have to re-do designs because someone wasn't specific - and some of those times, it's been multiple re-do's. Anyway - you have plenty of time - Jan. is a long way off............. so, take your time, look around and then decide. There are so many amazing designs here and so many fabulous designers - who will gladly create anything you'd like!!!
Also, there are a lot of invites as well............ when you get your dining set up, ask for those. There are welcome letters, journals, passports, autograph books, you name it............. enjoy looking around - and if you have any questions ask away!!!
AND - I'm with Marion............ what do you mean by "golden" b-day??
