Jenn
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and every time we think we are all set - another problem gets thrown at us. This is us, our girls, MIL, FIL, SIL and her 5 kids - 12 in all. We booked last fall and since then:
April - FIL diagnosed with lung cancer- starts chemo - we still think we can make the trip, just working around his needs
June - FIL has a series of small strokes and is hospitalized for a week. They decide to cancel and we will go without them.
July - he is fully recovered from strokes, feeling really good, they decide now they do want to go. Major headaches getting them -rooms, flights, etc on such short notice but we are finally successful
While we are gone - my Mom is having a small lump removed from her breast and biopsied. Upset I can't be there with her, praying it's nothing.
This past Wed - my husband, myself and my MIL all work for the same bank (in different areas). We find out the bank was bought and we are all losing our jobs - me probably in November, DH and MIL probably in Feb. MIL will just retire early - for us, with stock options and severance pay - we will be okay for a year and a half, but will still need to find new jobs. We are taking this vacation and leaving the troubles behind.
This morning - SIL calls - my neice is throwing up. Okay - she tends to get stomach bugs very easily - 2-3 times per year, so just crossing fingers she gets some rest today and is okay by tomorrow morning.
10 minutes ago - my 2 year old fell down the stairs- she's okay, just shaken up.
Has this been a crappy few months or what?
April - FIL diagnosed with lung cancer- starts chemo - we still think we can make the trip, just working around his needs
June - FIL has a series of small strokes and is hospitalized for a week. They decide to cancel and we will go without them.
July - he is fully recovered from strokes, feeling really good, they decide now they do want to go. Major headaches getting them -rooms, flights, etc on such short notice but we are finally successful
While we are gone - my Mom is having a small lump removed from her breast and biopsied. Upset I can't be there with her, praying it's nothing.
This past Wed - my husband, myself and my MIL all work for the same bank (in different areas). We find out the bank was bought and we are all losing our jobs - me probably in November, DH and MIL probably in Feb. MIL will just retire early - for us, with stock options and severance pay - we will be okay for a year and a half, but will still need to find new jobs. We are taking this vacation and leaving the troubles behind.
This morning - SIL calls - my neice is throwing up. Okay - she tends to get stomach bugs very easily - 2-3 times per year, so just crossing fingers she gets some rest today and is okay by tomorrow morning.
10 minutes ago - my 2 year old fell down the stairs- she's okay, just shaken up.
Has this been a crappy few months or what?
