Girls and Boys!

[Ms.Squeakers]

The best answer you will ever get: just ask him. Honestly, we can go back and forth telling you what we feel, but it might be completely off as to what he feels. I know it's really embarrassing and you'll think "easier said than done", but honestly if you get into the habit of not putting too much pressure on it, the anxiety of situations like this will get much better.

Well.
Thats what I mean.
Its too odd for me to do, not because im embarassed but because i dont want to ask him if he likes me and completely distroy the friendship AND never talk to him again.
I feel its best to wait it off 3 years.
When it "really matters most".

 

[Rockstar mentality]

Does that really mean a guy likes you?! This is darn good news.

nooo. i have an impulse to do that when im talking to any grrl thats not a friend of mine. unfortuanly that has led 2 many problems becaue alot of grls think that means a guy likes them but it doesenr nessacily mean that

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

well.. your not to to young. umm when friends make up things they usually just do it not to hurt you, and sometimes that better than knowing the truth and not getting hurt.

I dont care.
It takes alot to "hurt" me.

I mean, I like knowing the truth to know what im going against.

 

[ohdisco]

mmhmm, but like this guy im talking to now. He was raised in a very nice home. I know his family/cousin/his friends. and Their all the kind of people i would love to be with. But he was done things with past girlfriends. But hes really not that kind of guy if you know what i mean.

I know what you mean. Well, if you like his personality and he seems like a nice guy, I don't see what's wrong with being experienced. As long as you hold your boundaries and never let him manipulate you into doing something you're not ready to do, it should be ok.

 

[dancergirlsasha]

nooo. i have an impulse to do that when im talking to any grrl thats not a friend of mine. unfortuanly that has led 2 many problems becaue alot of grls think that means a guy likes them but it doesenr nessacily mean that

Oh. Well, can you like give any specific signs for how to tell if a guy likes you? I'm pretty desperate over here.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Does that really mean a guy likes you?! This is darn good news.

hmm its always meant that for me. like one night after a ball game we was all standing around waiting for our rides. it was me, my crush, his friend, and mine friend and my cousin. and i was talking about something, and he was the only one looking at me directly in the eyes<3 we started dating three days later =)

 

[ohdisco]

Well.
Thats what I mean.
Its too odd for me to do, not because im embarassed but because i dont want to ask him if he likes me and completely distroy the friendship AND never talk to him again.
I feel its best to wait it off 3 years.
When it "really matters most".

Why wait 3 years? Is that a personal/parental limit? Like, no boyfriends until 16 or whatever?

 

[dancergirlsasha]

hmm its always meant that for me. like one night after a ball game we was all standing around waiting for our rides. it was me, my crush, his friend, and mine friend and my cousin. and i was talking about something, and he was the only one looking at me directly in the eyes<3 we started dating three days later =)

Awwww. That was like the cutest story ever. I'm jealous.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

Oh. Well, can you like give any specific signs for how to tell if a guy likes you? I'm pretty desperate over here.

well if a guy goess 100% out of his way for you then thats a really good sign. but all people are diffrent. i could give you general signs but they wouldnt apply to all people soo it may lead to trouble

 

[cindys_castle2011]

I know what you mean. Well, if you like his personality and he seems like a nice guy, I don't see what's wrong with being experienced. As long as you hold your boundaries and never let him manipulate you into doing something you're not ready to do, it should be ok.

oh yess. im very good at doing what i want to do, and not what someone wants me to do. and plus i dont think he would ever put me in that situation, like i said hes not that kinda guy. =)

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Awwww. That was like the cutest story ever. I'm jealous.

. well were not together anymore. not cause of anything bad. he just moved. ugh military family =(. but were still friends and he comes down to visit and he still looks me in the eyes =X. haha

 

[cindys_castle2011]

well if a guy goess 100% out of his way for you then thats a really good sign. but all people are diffrent. i could give you general signs but they wouldnt apply to all people soo it may lead to trouble

mmk im with her. ive been talking to this guy. and he says he likes me, but he talks to a lot of girls. he said a lot of them he talks to he knows they like him. how would i know that he likes me?

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

hmm its always meant that for me. like one night after a ball game we was all standing around waiting for our rides. it was me, my crush, his friend, and mine friend and my cousin. and i was talking about something, and he was the only one looking at me directly in the eyes<3 we started dating three days later =)

Aw.
Thats really cute.
Its almost like one of those things where you know its like a fairytale and you always wonder when that will happen to you and then it hits you when you least expect it.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

well if a guy goess 100% out of his way for you then thats a really good sign. but all people are diffrent. i could give you general signs but they wouldnt apply to all people soo it may lead to trouble

What would going out of his way exactly?
What if a guy is friends with lots of girls, but they only see him as the friend type?


Hmph.
Ive got millions of questions and I know theres only one person that can answer them 100 percent and that person is the one I am afraid of...


Its so weird

I can tell him anything
EXCEPT THAT

 

[Rockstar mentality]

mmk im with her. ive been talking to this guy. and he says he likes me, but he talks to a lot of girls. he said a lot of them he talks to he knows they like him. how would i know that he likes me?

He said he likes you. Now that means
1 he accualy likes you
2 thinks ure hot and wants you as a girlfriend

Now to tell i would say ( ok this wont apply to super players cause they are really good and there is now way u can ever tell if a super player likes you or hes playin you) that if the guys does somthing specail for youday after day. like is late for a class just to walk you to ure class. etc as long as its special

 

[ohdisco]

Haha, speaking of fairy tales, lemme tell you the story of Eric and my first kiss:

SO THERE WE WERE (haha)...We were leaving my friend's house, and he gave me a piggyback ride back to my house. We got to the little walk way (where he had to duck cause he's so tall, haha), he put me down and walked me up to my door. He told me I looked lovely tonight, I said thank you. He looked at me, smiled, and looked like he was going in for a kiss. I smiled, and did the same.

Well...our height difference can be horrible sometimes. As we both go in for a cute fairy tale kiss...*BONK* His chin SLAMS into my face. We both weren't really looking (it was his first kiss ever, so his eyes were closed, and I always feel weird kissing with my eyes open, so I closed my eyes), so we didn't know how unclose we were, haha. We backed up, laughed, and went in for a real kiss.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

What would going out of his way exactly?
What if a guy is friends with lots of girls, but they only see him as the friend type?


Hmph.
Ive got millions of questions and I know theres only one person that can answer them 100 percent and that person is the one I am afraid of...


Its so weird

I can tell him anything
EXCEPT THAT

im friends with alot of grls and by no means do i like any of them. Accualy a grl asked me literly 5 mins ago if i liked her. This is ironic. Then the guy only see the friends (which happen 2 be grls) as friends no more no less. THat means that he does not like any of the grls which are his friends.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

He said he likes you. Now that means
1 he accualy likes you
2 thinks ure hot and wants you as a girlfriend

Now to tell i would say ( ok this wont apply to super players cause they are really good and there is now way u can ever tell if a super player likes you or hes playin you) that if the guys does somthing specail for youday after day. like is late for a class just to walk you to ure class. etc as long as its special

ugh we dont even go to the same school =X
i use to go to that school though.
the towns are both small and right next to each other.
so everybody knows everybody. you get it.
And hes 17 and im only 14, but that really doesnt seem to bother him. =)

but what if he says goodnight like every single night, does that mean anything or does he just say it cause hes going to bed. lol.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Haha, speaking of fairy tales, lemme tell you the story of Eric and my first kiss:

SO THERE WE WERE (haha)...We were leaving my friend's house, and he gave me a piggyback ride back to my house. We got to the little walk way (where he had to duck cause he's so tall, haha), he put me down and walked me up to my door. He told me I looked lovely tonight, I said thank you. He looked at me, smiled, and looked like he was going in for a kiss. I smiled, and did the same.

Well...our height difference can be horrible sometimes. As we both go in for a cute fairy tale kiss...*BONK* His chin SLAMS into my face. We both weren't really looking (it was his first kiss ever, so his eyes were closed, and I always feel weird kissing with my eyes open, so I closed my eyes), so we didn't know how unclose we were, haha. We backed up, laughed, and went in for a real kiss.

times a billion and threee.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

goo dnight in person, on the phone, or online?