We met at a bar.
He was crushing on my BFF.
He had a fractured skull so he wasn't in his right mind.
His date was late.
the rest is history.
LOL
Seriously, we did meet at the enlisted mens club on base. My BFF came looking for me in the sports bar and stopped at the next table and asked if he knew Buffy (she was looking for me). Before he could answer, she saw me so walked away. He was her ex-boyfriends section leader so she would be there at muster on duty days when they were dating. DH always told her boyfriend that one day he was going to steal D's girl from him. She could never remember his name.
So BFF is trying to hook up with one of the bartenders in the rooftop bar in the hip-hop side of the club (there were 6 actual bars inside the club) DH was there with a friend and waiting for his date. He had just gotten out of the hospital because he fell on base, hit his head and fractured his skull.
I walk up to the bar to get a drink (soda, I was underage) and the bartender gave me a coke for free (this is the guy BFF wanted). DH turns around and says "well you're all hooked up aren't you?" I'm like "uh yeah I guess so." I go dance, come back, he's still there, his date is late and they were supposed to meet there. So we're talking and what not, his date shows up and completely ignores her! LOL
We head over to the country bar and hang out there most of the night. Now mind you, in this time of my life I was A) sick of men and B) a total player. But I could not shake DH for the life of me, and I tried!! LOL
Well the rest is pretty much history, we were inseparable since except for when he went home on leave for Xmas and even came back early to take me to a New Years Eve party on base.
We met on Dec 4, 1992
Married on April 24, 1993
going on 16 years.
eta: I was 19 he was 26