Get in line says my over-soaked soul...

[Hisgirl]

@maxaroni I am so sorry to hear all that.
I hope you have a support system around you! Having an elderly parent pass is hard, but I cannot imagine going through that. I'm so sorry.

How is your husband coming along?

 

[Minnesota!]

That was 1999 for me. So much loss and grief and I ended up breaking at some point down the road.

My suggestion is therapy, be kind to yourself, let yourself feel everything without having to take an action on anything, and sit with and in your grief, at each step and for each loss, as long as it takes. There is no timeline on grief and adding one only makes things even more stressful.

I'm so sorry for your great, so many losses.

 

[maxaroni]

@maxaroni I am so sorry to hear all that.
I hope you have a support system around you! Having an elderly parent pass is hard, but I cannot imagine going through that. I'm so sorry.

How is your husband coming along?

My husband is doing well. He’s tolerating treatments and has 1.5 years left for treatment. He has lost strength and is tired but he deals with it best he can. He may take a nap or goes to bed early. Other than that, doing very well.
He has been a rock to me during all that has been going on this year.

My dad’s death was just awful. We live in DE & he was in FL. I called for a welfare check and had the cops come to my door to tell me he passed away but didn’t tell me how. We didn’t know until we got to Florida and spoke with the sheriffs department. I had to sell the house as we just didn’t want it, due to what occured. We had to get a biohazard team in and then a handyman. It was New Years Eve, just after midnight, during fireworks. I have come to terms with that part but miss him terribly. NYE we are going to get together with our DS & Daughter in law, just being together the first year.

I feel for you. It’s been so much for you in such a short amount of time. All of them in itself is hard enough, let alone more than one. You will get through it, don’t push yourself. Take care of you!