Gay-friendly Thread!

SparklieSunShine said:
Is anyone here out at work? I just started a new job as an Independent Consultant for The Body Shop At Home and I am meeting with my upline next week and I feel like she might ask me if I am single or married or something along those lines. I'm not really sure what I should say since I don't want to lie, but I also don't want to make a big deal about it. I'm also worried it might keep me from getting clients......am I thinking to much into this?

It is actually against the law to ask someone if they are married or single and most people in upper management positions know this. The reason being it stops discrimination or any appearance of discrimination. It may come up in an innocent manner with no intent of judgement one way or another, but in a just get to know you kind of way. I am out at work, as is my partner, but both of our companies have harrassement and discrimination policies for sexual orientation. Not knowing the Body Shop I would be careful what you say. You may want to check out HRC's website under worklife to see if the Body Shop is listed as having a policy on sexual orientation. It is wonderful resource. Good Luck and let us know how it goes.
 
disneynutt1225 said:
I think I drank enough wine for everyone in this thread! LOL.

We're moving at the end of January into my parents house (trying to save money for a house). We'll be in Roslyn (Long Island) just inside the Nassau County border. We'll probably live there for around 2 years and then look for a house in the Queens/Brooklyn area. That's the plan as of now anyway.

I see a mini DIS meet in the future! We live in the Rego Park/Forest Hills, Queens area. If you want to poke around the neighborhood to see if it suits you, you should let me now. I love living here!
 
nordkin said:
It is actually against the law to ask someone if they are married or single and most people in upper management positions know this. The reason being it stops discrimination or any appearance of discrimination. It may come up in an innocent manner with no intent of judgement one way or another, but in a just get to know you kind of way. I am out at work, as is my partner, but both of our companies have harrassement and discrimination policies for sexual orientation. Not knowing the Body Shop I would be careful what you say. You may want to check out HRC's website under worklife to see if the Body Shop is listed as having a policy on sexual orientation. It is wonderful resource. Good Luck and let us know how it goes.

Was going to suggest the same thing re: HRC (Human Rights Campaign). They're an excellent resource for info about major companies.
 
RickinNYC said:
I see a mini DIS meet in the future! We live in the Rego Park/Forest Hills, Queens area. If you want to poke around the neighborhood to see if it suits you, you should let me now. I love living here!

Thanks! I'll keep it in mind :)
 

All good things to keep in mind...I guess I will just deal with it as it comes up. The Body Shop is a great company and they care a lot about human right so I don't think I have anything to worry about when it comes to the corperation.

It's almost Christmas!
 
I think i have a pic in here now
if i do iam the one on the left
 
OK i know i do this for a living and all
but how do you get a pic in your signature?
 
Geez, you go away for a couple months and look what happens!

No trips to the World planned, but we took a Halloween trip to where it all started. HusBear is a dedicated DL loyalist and it's very rare that I can get him to admit that something is better at WDW than at DL. I still can't get him to admit that ToT sucks at CA in comparison to the WDW version.

Anyway, reading about how couples met up made me want to contribute our story (that and the fact that I'm not-so-constructively avoiding work at the moment). At the age of 33 (we won't say how many years ago this was), I had been single for three years (only one previous relationship that had lasted a year) and was living in Washington DC at the time. I have a good friend who is a bit of a psychic and one time when I was over for dinner I asked him to take a look at some pictures (typically he would look at pictures and get impressions about the people in the pictures). He looked at my picture and then asked "You have a 34-inch waist, right?" "No, 36" (again, we won't say how many inches ago this was). "Well, I get this real weird image. You're going to meet a man in the spring. He'll be tall and dark. He'll have children. But I get this image that you'll be able to wear each others clothes."

Now this has always been a very romantic image for me. Especially sweaters. I just love enveloping myself in a lover's smell. (I know, TMI).

Anyway, spring comes and goes and no tall, dark lover on the horizons. Oh, well, Glynn screwed up again. A year comes and goes and I've forgotten about the prediction.

Nearly two years after this dinner, I'm in a dressing room backstage at the Seattle Opera House getting ready to play music with a Balkan band that I used to play with when I lived in Seattle. We are playing for a Balkan dance group (Radost) that I danced with back in the early 80's. I just happened to be visiting in Seattle during the Northwest Folklife festival (Memorial Day weekend) and the band I used to play with needed a clarinet player for a Radost performance. Friends of mine that were still dancing with Radost mentioned there was this new guy in the group that I should meet as he reminded them of me and they thought the two of us would hit it off.

I walk into the dressing room, gig bag over the shoulder, and I see a very animated, tall man (half-dressed) with dark hair and beard and I'm sure this is the person my friend was talking about. He's doing finger magic tricks for another dancer. So I worm my way into the conversation by offering my own stupid magic tricks. The mutual friend walks by and I turn to her and say "So Sidney, are you going to do the introductions?" "Of course. Steve, Ricky. Ricky, Steve." Rick then turns to me and says "Oh, you're the person whose name is in all my costumes!"

Ding-ding-ding-ding-ding-ding-ding-ding!

After a cast party where we spent the entire night talking to each other and one date that weekend (before I had to return to the east coast) it was obvious that this was the man Glynn had been referring to and that somehow we would be together. Eight months later I was back in Seattle, in the one job in the entire city that was comparable to my job in Washington.

I do believe in fate. Through good times and bad we are still together.
 
Karma! I knew you guys would appreciate this. I had a studio booked at BWV in February (had points I just had to use!) but I needed to switch to March and wanted a 1 bedroom instead. I called member services yesterday and was told that there were no 1 bedrooms available at Boardwalk, Beach Club or Wilderness. They had availability at Saratoga and Old Key West but I really had my heart set on BWV. So I was a bit bummed out. Today I decided to go ahead and book OKW and just for the heck of it I called again asked the woman to check availability at BWV (1 day later, different woman). She started typing away on the computer, paused for a while, then put me on hold ... magic happened and we now have exactly what we want!! There are still a few more pieces to this trip puzzle but this is a great start. Maybe this was Disney's Christmas present to me! ;)
 
Saxton said:
magic happened and we now have exactly what we want!! There are still a few more pieces to this trip puzzle but this is a great start. Maybe this was Disney's Christmas present to me! ;)

Yes, Virginia, there IS a Santa Claus! How nice that you got what you wanted. That was Mickey's personal present to you. :goodvibes
 
Hey there everyone!

I didn't even know there was a gay friendly thread on the DIS boards. I found out about this on the cruise thread.

Well, my partner and I are heading down to WDW on December 31st to celebrate New Year's Eve and have a little vacation.

Next December, 2006 we and a friend are all taking our first Disney Cruise. Don't quite know what to expect on that front.
 
Hi everyone!

Just a quick note! I am off to the inlaws tonight, and then a tour of Ontario and my parents place for Christmas, and back to Quebec and the inlaws for New Years. This is going to be a looooooong trip for us. I love the holidays, but will love getting back home soon. :)

So in case I don't get a chance, I just wanted to wish everyone a Merry Christmas! (Does everyone on our thread celebrate Christmas? If not, happy Chanuka or Kwanza or anything else!) I'm sure I will sneak on sometime, somewhere, but if not I look forward to talking to you all in the new year!

Love always,
Noah (AKA: True North)
 
Hi guys, my computer crashed (literally, into the floor) two nights ago, so I'm using the old one on dial up and I am, of course, very busy this time of year, but I wanted to check in and say two things. First, I saw Brokeback Mountain yesterday, the tragic lovestory of two cowboys back in the 60s, and it was awesome. Run and see it! Second, please have a happy holiday time.
 
Hi All! This is my first posting and I hope it show up at the right place. Anyway, my partner of ten years and I are from Canada and we are planning to get married in February. For our honeymoon we have booked a 6 nights 7 days Magic your way plus dining vacation and we are staying at the All Star Movie. My question is: Is it wise to tell them we are going on our honeymoon and plan accordingly? We are both quiet people and don't want to cause a scene, but on the other hand we want it to be special and make the trip memorable, candlelight dinner and all. I am excited and nervous at the same time any suggestions would be appreciated.

Oh, and Happy Holiday to all of you!

Peter and Lucas
 
Hi iankh and TLPL!!! Welcome!!

TLPL: Congrats!! February is almost here!!! From what I understand Disney is very gay friendly. But maybe you better wait for the responses here.
 
Hi everyone - we are running around like crazy women trying to finish up Christmas preparations. I hope everyone has a safe and happy holiday! :flower:
 















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