Be a Parent or Not One At All
I have had it folks! Lately people are saying not to shame or blame parents after "accidents" occur. Well guess what, some parents need some blame. Parents need to wake up! Child neglect IS a form of child abuse. As a parent you ARE responsible to keep your kid safe. There are accidents where children die but there are also incidents where children die that could be totally preventable.
This week a child died of an alligator attack because their parent decided to disobey the many "no swimming" signs located at a water edge. It's that simple. It is horrible, and I can't imagine how terrible it is to lose a child in any way. But let's hold the parent responsible. If the parent followed the signs right in front of him, and not decided to blatantly disregard them, his child would still be alive. We don't know why the parent didn't think the rules applied to him and his family. If the same parent decided not to use a car seat for the 2yr. old and the parent got in a car wreak, we would automatically say he was negligent because the parent knew he was suppose to have a car seat and disregarded the rules. Why is this any different? Because he was on vacation? Because it was unusual? Because the parent fought the alligator? What about the child who was totally unsupervised and fell into gorilla pit? He could have died too. When are we going to hold parents responsible for their neglect? These incidents didn't have to have happen if parents were doing their basic job of being a parent.
Being a parent IS very hard work. But you can't just take a vacation from it whenever a parent wants to. You have to work hard at it, at all times. Not following rules, especially safely ones and rules of supervising your kids, especially in public places IS neglect and it IS child abuse, and if something happens tragic to your child or they become hurt, it IS your fault as a parent. Wake up parents, and be a parent!
The Federal Child Abuse Prevention
and Treatment Act (CAPTA), (42 U.S.C.A.
§5106g), as amended and reauthorized by
the CAPTA Reauthorization Act of 2010,
defines child abuse and neglect as, at
minimum:
“Any recent act or failure to act on the part of
a parent or caretaker which results in death,
serious physical or emotional harm, sexual
abuse or exploitation; or an act or failure to
act which presents an imminent risk of serious
harm."