HI! I had my gastric bypass surgery 3.5 years ago now-BEST decision I ever made, 120 lbs down, and I feel wonderful!!
I may be in the minority here, But I just go and pay the full price, I still do not eat even as much as a child really, but I feel like this was a choice I made for me, and my husband and kids love to eat there, and many other restaurants, so we go, pay the price and I enjoy myself. I always feel good when I see the amount of food they eat, knowing 3 years ago I owuld have eaten more than that, but I am very satisfied with my small plate of "sample sizes!"
We went to Disney World and on a
Disney Cruise about 6 months after I had my surgery and pretty much just ate where DH and the kids wanted to and I enjoyed the company. We are DVC owners now, and usually get the deluxe dining plan my DH and kids really enjoy the flexibility, and I usually order an appetizer for my meal and a dessert that everyone picks off of too- I guess people would say we are wasting money, but it is the way we like to do it- and we go in with our eyes wide open as to what I will eat and what I will not eat.
Like I said, I may be in the minority of Gastric Bypass patients, but I look at meal times more now as a time to spend with my family and catch up ont he day , vacation etc.
On another note- Congrats on the surgery and good luck with the hard work you will put in! Hope things are going well for you!