Hi,
I second and third what has already been said here. And then I'd like to add on if I may, and hope you find it helpful.
Not only do we see things with different eyes (a snake being good 'theming' or causing a feinting spell for example) and thus write about an experience more or less positively...but also we all react differently to what we read.
Sometimes I read a post and the person posting is complaining about something that (to me) is really insignificant re my vacation plans. How do I react? I might smile a little and shake my head and then I just move on to another post. I am not compelled to post to this person and attack his character because he is bothered by a mosquito in the room. If I post, I may say that housekeeping might have some repellent or citronella candles if you aren't allergic to them.
What is annoying to me however, are the posters who read the post and then add their post which contains little or no helpful information, but only serves to tell the poster how stupid or insensitive (to all living things) or greedy he is...that he should be thankful he can walk (since I guess the mosquito is handicapped because he cant) and so on. NOT COOL to attack character. And if the mosquito poster is a 'complainer' I dare say that the rude poster is also a 'complainer' cause he is complaining about posters who complain.
And then the firework fly in that people jump on the bandwagon to support one or the other of the complainers and the whole point of the thread gets lost. If these people really liked to debate (I do) then it seems they would debate the issue and not attack the posters. The fact that it happens so often here makes me sad. So I sell the posters who complain and then offer either a proposal for change OR ask for help in resolving the problem...as contributing in some way to either my knowledge (I didn't know there were mosquitos or I didnt' realize that the poster was an entymologist and recognized that particular South American mosquito as carrying malaria)
OR when others offer him advice as to how to solve his problem (call housekeeping)..I learn what to do in the event the same thing happens to me.
But when people post to castigate him for having the nerve to post a silly question...then I become upset at the meanness of those who like to attack others. And I wonder what they are like in person, tho I hope I never meet them in person!
It's been my experience that most of the trip/room/CM 'reports' say 20 positive things to one negative experience. The posters usually preface the negative by indicting that it was probably an anomaly. I read that as a positive post, but apparently some people can't stand the thought that something negative happened and so they blame the poster for either what happened or for posting it (head in sand syndrome). It seems to me that if something negative happens that the most POSITIVE approach is to try to figure out how to prevent it happening again,as opposed to ignoring it and hoping it will never happen to me. I can only deduce that some people are very easily threatened and very, very afraid.
I keep posting and reading because I have learned so much about WDW, and I hope you will too. I ,too ,am trying to buy into
DVC. I am currently in ROFR as is JimMIA (I think)...I learned from the board posts what a good value was, how much the dues were, how to amortize the real cost per year, how to rent points, how to increase my chances of getting a nonsmoking room etc....I wouldn't have made an offer on a resale if I hadn't been reading this forum.
Hope I haven't offended anyone by posting this (but if I did...

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Good luck on finding the perfect DVC resort!
Colorado Belle