I'm the OP and have been away with my new year at school starting...so I'm just now catching up from over a week ago! Thanks for everyone's ideas!!! We'll certainly try them...I love the highs/lows to keep in touch with what's happening. DS just started middle school, & I'm finding that he's doing AWESOME but is eager to talk (yea!!) more than he did in elementary about what's happening. Of course, I'm more curious since middle school is beyond my elementary teaching experience...now I'm just a parent!!!
DS11 did a wonderful thing for us recently (and he's done it a few times before)! For DH and my 17th anniversary (which was on 8-8-08 -- opening of the Olympics), he ran us upstairs, cleaned the living room, kitchen, and dining area, decorated the table, and made and served dinner for us!!! We had a sweet-sour stir fry from his kid's cookbook which he made us eat with chopsticks!!! He even dressed up for dinner for us!!! It was so sweet!!!! I gave him a $20 bill when we went grocery shopping -- he went his way & I went mine...he ordered me to find a "good wine for Asian food." He found everything he needed, checked out on his own, and was waiting for me at the entrance with change!!

I'm working to train the young lad, friends!!
Please keep those wonderful ideas coming!!