disneydance
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Ok so here my issue its long and its about a month old and just seems to be getting worse by the moment...
So to starts out with about I want to say 2 months ago I was in another fight with a close friend
It was over communication bassically and telling each other the truth I guess you could say...
We both played the I guesss we hate each other stay away from me game for about 3 weeks.
After I wrote a letter it ended up all sorting out but there was another issue that came into play
When I wrote the letter another girl Chloe told me Katelyn hated the letter and didnt want to talk to me
Well that turned out to be the exact oppisite of what Katelyn said and after another friend helping working things out we were friends again
So a few days later during lunch I normally dont see Chloe since she likes to hide in her classroom she walks up to me and was mad and starts screaming at me over the it...
So I tell her I will talk to Katelyn about it
I decided it would be best to take all the blame for it so there could be peace
Was I far from wrong thats all it would take...
Katelyn then tells me when my dad was giving us a ride home from school that Chloe has been mad at me for quite a while and she wasnt to tell me but she was going to anyways
So the next Monday we decided it would be best if I worked it out with Chloe
I thought it would be painless as could be just saying sorry saying yes we both had made mistakes and it would all be cool
Was I far from wrong
So I say to Chloe that I know Katelyn told you that she told me the truth
So I then said, can we talk about this and work things out
Chloe reacts by acting like a 5 year old and changing the subject
I then say lets not change the subject which she does anyway...
So I then walk away for 10 minutes then come back and ask if shes ready
She then tells me how annoying I am, how I make too much drama, how shes mad at me for telling Katelyn that and down the line
I then say ok can we work it out she then goes NOPE
So since that moment for the last month I've been getting the silent treatment
It wouldnt be as big of a deal if it wasnt for the fact that we hang out with the same group of people
I'm never really apart of conversations when ever shes around and I feel like an outsider
I have no idea what to do...
So today in English after trying everything else that would ease her up or maybe get her unhappy and want to work things out (giving the silent treatment back to her which she enjoyed and asked if I would do it for the rest of my life, just casually trying to talk to her, etc) I finally say Chloe "can we please just work this out".
Chloe then acts like I said nothing and when Jessica the girl which was the reason I was sitting there, then said something to Chloe about it she took it as joke
Shes all like who said what Becca, our teacher, Justin shes all like you know who Katie
Shes all like no, no, no who really
By then I was so mad I got up and moved and just started crying I dont know what else to do....
I dont think its going to be resolved anytime soon
Also if its not resolved by next Friday do you have any tips of having the silent treatment for 24hrs??
Its Jessicas birthday party she only could invite 3 people and she invited Me, Chloe, and Katelyn
I dont know if I can take it but I dont want to deny it
Since it was really kind of her to do this since she could only invite very few people
Any tips on what to do I have no other ideas only thing others have told me is get the counselor involved in it which sounds like a really bad idea, and talk to another person I know which she has to hear about enough she has 4 kids of her own she doesnt need to hear about my drama also.
Help anyone??
Thanks for reading
So to starts out with about I want to say 2 months ago I was in another fight with a close friend
It was over communication bassically and telling each other the truth I guess you could say...
We both played the I guesss we hate each other stay away from me game for about 3 weeks.
After I wrote a letter it ended up all sorting out but there was another issue that came into play
When I wrote the letter another girl Chloe told me Katelyn hated the letter and didnt want to talk to me
Well that turned out to be the exact oppisite of what Katelyn said and after another friend helping working things out we were friends again
So a few days later during lunch I normally dont see Chloe since she likes to hide in her classroom she walks up to me and was mad and starts screaming at me over the it...
So I tell her I will talk to Katelyn about it
I decided it would be best to take all the blame for it so there could be peace
Was I far from wrong thats all it would take...
Katelyn then tells me when my dad was giving us a ride home from school that Chloe has been mad at me for quite a while and she wasnt to tell me but she was going to anyways
So the next Monday we decided it would be best if I worked it out with Chloe
I thought it would be painless as could be just saying sorry saying yes we both had made mistakes and it would all be cool
Was I far from wrong
So I say to Chloe that I know Katelyn told you that she told me the truth
So I then said, can we talk about this and work things out
Chloe reacts by acting like a 5 year old and changing the subject
I then say lets not change the subject which she does anyway...
So I then walk away for 10 minutes then come back and ask if shes ready
She then tells me how annoying I am, how I make too much drama, how shes mad at me for telling Katelyn that and down the line
I then say ok can we work it out she then goes NOPE
So since that moment for the last month I've been getting the silent treatment
It wouldnt be as big of a deal if it wasnt for the fact that we hang out with the same group of people
I'm never really apart of conversations when ever shes around and I feel like an outsider
I have no idea what to do...
So today in English after trying everything else that would ease her up or maybe get her unhappy and want to work things out (giving the silent treatment back to her which she enjoyed and asked if I would do it for the rest of my life, just casually trying to talk to her, etc) I finally say Chloe "can we please just work this out".
Chloe then acts like I said nothing and when Jessica the girl which was the reason I was sitting there, then said something to Chloe about it she took it as joke
Shes all like who said what Becca, our teacher, Justin shes all like you know who Katie
Shes all like no, no, no who really
By then I was so mad I got up and moved and just started crying I dont know what else to do....
I dont think its going to be resolved anytime soon
Also if its not resolved by next Friday do you have any tips of having the silent treatment for 24hrs??
Its Jessicas birthday party she only could invite 3 people and she invited Me, Chloe, and Katelyn
I dont know if I can take it but I dont want to deny it
Since it was really kind of her to do this since she could only invite very few people
Any tips on what to do I have no other ideas only thing others have told me is get the counselor involved in it which sounds like a really bad idea, and talk to another person I know which she has to hear about enough she has 4 kids of her own she doesnt need to hear about my drama also.
Help anyone??
Thanks for reading
