Friend Troubles

[grumpy101]

I'm very unhappy because my Best friend Kathleen who is like a sister to me is mad at me. The reason why she is mad at me is because I called and asked if she wanted to do something. Then she gets all mad and says I called her twice wanting her to do something which is not true I only called her once. Well I talked to one of my other good friends tasha last friday her and my other friend Rosie were having some problems with each other. Anyway My friend Tasha calls me on Sunday telling that my Best Friend Kathleen took me out of her wedding again. My friend Kathleen tells my friend Tasha that I already knew about it. after today this will be the seventh day in a row that I haven't talked to my Best friend Kathleen. I don't know what to do.

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

your 19 year old friend is getting married?

 

[ryan840]

She is mad at you for asking her to do something more than once? Was it a specific something or just a "hanging out" something?

 

[grumpy101]

My friend is 22 she will be 23 when she get's married. all I wanted to do was hang out with for a couple hours and she get's all mad at me for asking her to hang out with her.

 

[ryan840]

It sounds like she's under a lot of stress. If she's not usually like this, talk to her and ask if you can help in any way, even by backing off for a bit. If she's always like this, maybe it's time to rethink the friendship? It sucks when your friends are mad at you, hang in there!

 

[goofyandplutoluver]

 

[Laurajean1014]

Yes. Stress is definitely her problem. She may think you have plenty of time to hang and she feels like she has none. Let her chill for a few days and maybe send a card for encouragement.

Saying your sorry, even if not your fault is a great thing.

Remember; it's not the battle you want to win but the war!

 

[grumpy101]

Thanks I will todays is her 22nd birthday I talked to her Fiance earlier on the computer he usually calls to tell her sweet dreams so I asked him if he could pass on a message from me telling her Happy Birthday. My friend is Bi Polar me and her have been fighting since my Freshmen and part of my Sophmore year of high school. We have been very good friends and ended our fighting. now that my two other friend Rosie and Tasha moves in with there Boyfriends we don't get to hang out as much as we used to. So when Rosie and Tasha moved all of our fighting started up again between the four of us.

 

[Tink3rb3ll]

My friend is Bi Polar

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Wow, that explains a lot... like everyone else said, she is probably under a lot of stress. Hope everything works out!

 

[grumpy101]

So far this is the seventh day in a row me and my friend Kathleen haven't talked to each other.

 

[Tink3rb3ll]

So far this is the seventh day in a row me and my friend Kathleen haven't talked to each other.

Have you tried calling her?

 

[copper]

well i would just try talking 2 her and if that doesnt work then just wait a week or so and she will talk to u again these things do take time
thats what happened to me and my friend amy

 

[Spear]

What happened to my post in this?

 

[grumpy101]

Ok here is my report on me and my Friend Kathleen me and her have been counting and she hasn't talked to me in 13 days. She called me on Tuesday and we talked we are both cool now.

 

[goofyandplutoluver]

thats awesome^^^

 

[cinderelly76]

Great
I am glad you guys are friends again
She was probably stressed with the wedding and everyhting

 

[Laurajean1014]

Very cool. Glad it worked out between you both.