We have 4 DS(9,8,4&1). My 4yo LOVES Cinderella and has to eat at the castle to see her. We already have our PS, but I feel weird taking all boys to a princess breakfast. He will be crushed if we don't go. I was thinking of getting him a "I want to be prince charming" shirt made. What do you think?

If the older boys don't want to go, maybe they can do something with Dad while you and DS have a little QT together. Just my opinion. 
(No flames please, I have a boy and a girl and I know that my girls has more Disney stuff than my boy.)
Go and have a great time! 