Fortunate or unfortunate?

I don't think you necessarily have to be in a position to scrimp and save in order to have a good mindset in terms of budgeting. DW and I have honestly never really struggled financially, but we've both been raised to be pretty conservative with money and even when our income continually increased, we've always maintained that philosophy. Yes, we've been fortunate and lucky in life, but we've also always focused on giving ourselves options in case of unlucky situations. :)

I totally agree that scrimping isn't necessary, but I know that in our case it was a real eye opener. I never would have believed that we could get by on as little as we did.
 
I don't believe in luck or fortune (fortunate). I am in the position I am in today due to hard work/effort.



this article has been posted before but needs repeating...... again


"A DAY IN THE LIFE OF JOE REPUBLICAN"

Joe gets up at 6 a.m. and fills his coffeepot with water to prepare his morning coffee. The water is clean and good because some tree-hugging liberal fought for minimum water-quality standards. With his first swallow of water, he takes his daily medication. His medications are safe to take because some stupid commie liberal fought to ensure their safety and that they work as advertised.

All but $10 of his medications are paid for by his employer's medical plan because some liberal union workers fought their employers for paid medical insurance - now Joe gets it too.

He prepares his morning breakfast, bacon and eggs. Joe's bacon is safe to eat because some girly-man liberal fought for laws to regulate the meat packing industry.

In the morning shower, Joe reaches for his shampoo. His bottle is properly labeled with each ingredient and its amount in the total contents because some crybaby liberal fought for his right to know what he was putting on his body and how much it contained.

Joe dresses, walks outside and takes a deep breath. The air he breathes is clean because some environmentalist wacko liberal fought for the laws to stop industries from polluting our air.

He walks on the government-provided sidewalk to subway station for his government-subsidized ride to work. It saves him considerable money in parking and transportation fees because some fancy-pants liberal fought for affordable public transportation, which gives everyone the opportunity to be a contributor.

Joe begins his work day. He has a good job with excellent pay, medical benefits, retirement, paid holidays and vacation because some lazy liberal union members fought and died for these working standards. Joe's employer pays these standards because Joe's employer doesn't want his employees to call the union.

If Joe is hurt on the job or becomes unemployed, he'll get a worker compensation or unemployment check because some stupid liberal didn't think he should lose his home because of his temporary misfortune.

It is noontime and Joe needs to make a bank deposit so he can pay some bills. Joe's deposit is federally insured by the FSLIC because some godless liberal wanted to protect Joe's money from unscrupulous bankers who ruined the banking system before the Great Depression.

Joe has to pay his Fannie Mae-underwritten mortgage and his below-market federal student loan because some elitist liberal decided that Joe and the government would be better off if he was educated and earned more money over his lifetime. Joe also forgets that his in addition to his federally subsidized student loans, he attended a state funded university.

Joe is home from work. He plans to visit his father this evening at his farm home in the country. He gets in his car for the drive. His car is among the safest in the world because some America-hating liberal fought for car safety standards to go along with the tax-payer funded roads.

He arrives at his boyhood home. His was the third generation to live in the house financed by Farmers' Home Administration because bankers didn't want to make rural loans.

The house didn't have electricity until some big-government liberal stuck his nose where it didn't belong and demanded rural electrification.

He is happy to see his father, who is now retired. His father lives on Social Security and a union pension because some wine-drinking, cheese-eating liberal made sure he could take care of himself so Joe wouldn't have to.

Joe gets back in his car for the ride home, and turns on a radio talk show. The radio host keeps saying that liberals are bad and conservatives are good. He doesn't mention that the beloved Republicans have fought against every protection and benefit Joe enjoys throughout his day. Joe agrees: "We don't need those big-government liberals ruining our lives! After all, I'm a self-made man who believes everyone should take care of themselves, just like I have."
 
No luck, huh? Lots of people have worked hard their whole lives and had it all taken away in seconds. Maybe if they'd worked a little bit harder, right?
 
Well, that didn't take long to turn it into a political thread. :rolleyes1
 

I'm going out on a limb and saying neither. I consider you being "Blessed". :thumbsup2
 
I think in the end it's a matter of perspective, it's all in how you CHOOSE to look at it. We can't always choose our circumstances, but we can choose how we view them. And those views can change from day to day. One day we might feel fortunate, another day we might feel unfortunate for the very same reason. This applies not just to money situations, but any situation. Here's to choosing to feel fortunate! :love: :cheer2:
 
I think in the end it's a matter of perspective, it's all in how you CHOOSE to look at it. We can't always choose our circumstances, but we can choose how we view them. And those views can change from day to day. One day we might feel fortunate, another day we might feel unfortunate for the very same reason. This applies not just to money situations, but any situation. Here's to choosing to feel fortunate! :love: :cheer2:


I think if you strive to make the right choices, you'll most likely succeed. But whether or not that's considered fortunate, is highly subjective. Maybe being fortunate is something unexpected such as winning the lottery. Maybe being unfortunate is having a big setback like a car accident or losing your job. But just because I haven't had to scrimp to get by in life, or I have a decent paying job doesn't mean it was just plain luck.

In fact, this is how the dictionary defines those terms. Something unexpected that's either a positive or a negative.

I think being fortunate or unfortunate is relative to your baseline. It's different for everyone. Do I think I'm more fortunate that someone struggling from paycheck to paycheck? Not necessarily. Do I think someone who's living a more affluent lifestyle that me is more fortunate that I am? Again, not necessarily.
 


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