With the VCR/TV go to radio shack and buy a 3 way splitter (Radio Shack) for headphones and buy each kid a set of earphones. I recommend the cover the ear kind instead of the smaller walkman types. Let the kids have their Barney noises and you can enjoy the radio or cd player. We also hook up the Nintendo system as well. Get a power inverter at Wal-mart fairly cheap. We drive from Ft. Worth, Texas to WDW in two days. It is much easier with kids to stay 1 night with kids than drive straight through. I always find a stopping point on the map and decide this is where we are going to stay and then get on Priceline and bid on a 2.5 star hotel for $25 dollars(I have been successful everytime with hotels like Fairfield Inn and Holiday Inn Express). Do this also for the return trip.