He's trying to stay strong but the more he processes things the harder it gets for him. I asked him last night when his Grandmother is going to be moving in with his Aunt and he said probably w/in the next couple of weeks and then he was talking about getting certain ppl to help and then he said "we'll just move her master bedroom for now and deal with the rest when the time comes. God that's going to suck!" Then he got really sad....it hit him hard at that moment I think.
He's also struggling with the fact that he saved her life a couple of weeks ago which is what in turn what brought on all of this testing for his Grandmother to find out what was wrong with her. He stopped by her house to check on her and she wasn't answering the door but her car was in the drive way. So just as he was about to break the door down she came to her window and said to him "I can't get any air". She wears an oxygen tank 24/7. So he called his parents because he was on duty at the time and couldn't stay to help her so they took her to the dr and found out that she was only getting a little oxygen in her lungs at the time. I mean she was to the point of brain damage and she would have died if Chris hadn't of gone to check on her when he did. So now he txtd me this morning saying that he wishes he woulnd't have checked on her because then she could have just gone in her sleep and she wouldn't have had to know about or live with this cancer in her anymore and suffer with it. I tried to tell him not to blame himself for anything because that doesn't do anyone any good. And I tried to tell him that God has a plan and she is still here for a reason. We don't know what it is right now and we may never know until we get to heaven ourselves but we have to try and take comfort in that thought. He said he knows and he understands that but it's something that he's still struggeling with. I feel so awful for him. I wish I had more wisdom to help him. I think his struggles with this are only going to get harder and worse. This all just totally sucks.
Sorry for the book in response.
I bet you're sorry you asked now.
I've seen that movie. I guess I'm heartless since I didn't cry one bit during that movie.
oh man now Seven Pounds is one I still haven't seen either. I hate sad movies. Just like this "My Sister's Keeper".....I refuse to see it.
) And I like Kelly's idea of making the living room more exciting with a tent or something. 
