Okay, we are doing a week in March. DH and I, DDs 8, 6 and 22 months. Plan is to leave super early Friday morning. DH wants to leave at 3, I'm aiming for 12. We are driving straight through. DH does not want to make ANY stops, aside from gas/bathroom breaks. We will be packing food to eliminate food stops

. Last year we left at 3pm and arrived the next morning exhausted with 3 kids full of energy. On the way home we left before lunch, got home in the very early next morning and were able to all get a few hours of sleep before the kids were awake for the day. DH seems to think we can make it down this year in the time it took us to get home last year. I pointed out that on the way home last year the kids were exhausted and slept whereas on the way down they will be excited and full on energy. In other words, DH is setting us up for disaster and I can't talk sense into him. My questions are, on the way down, do we take I-81 or I-95? Also, any tricks to entertain the 22 month old for several hours in the van? We are making her a busy/quiet book but she is my most active toddler and does not sit still (the grocery store involves running and we've stopped going out to eat). She won't watch movies and while she loves to color (on everything), she bites the tips off the color wonder markers.