My wife and I are considering driving down from NJ( union county) in February. Our ds is over 2 now so paying for 3 tickets, and renting a car is looking expensive. I guess 95 is our best bet, that's how I went in 2000, when I was single and we only stopped for gas. My wife wants to stop once on the way down, and twice on the way back so we don't over do it with ds. In the spirit of happy wife happy life, can anyone recommend a stop about 9 or 10 hours in? Or 2 stops on the way back? Any sites not to miss? Thank you in advance.
couple thoughts- I'm assuming your kid is 3 (or 4) now?
A1= DO NOT BUY A TICKET THAT EXPIRES for your child- most of the time they dont actually bother you for tickets until the kid is much older than 3. We have three kids at home with us and I can't tell you how many times i stood there with a ticket for one of them in my hand and the CM looked at me like i was nutz to suggest to them they scan the kid in. I still have a complete 7 day non-expiring from when my daughter was 3- i tried every day of the 7 days to use it and they never took it.
We've driven from NJ to disney many times with the kids. Every kid is different, but in our case until they were 5-6 they were not having 7-10 hrs nonstop in the car. Potty breaks, mcdonals breaks, playland or a place to "run them" breaks and some years it seemed like we stopped every 30 miles.
Because of that- later night/early morning worked best for us when the kids were young. So they could sleep a good portion of the drive. Keep in mind going near baltimore or DC in evening rush is a major headache. We would typically leave hunterdon county around 4-6pm and accounting for the nightmare traffic that is Baltimore/DC I'd usually get to about fayetteville, NC before I, myself, was toast and we'd stop. (Lumberton if Traffic at DC didn't stink). Then we would try to get up early so they would nap in the car again- with all the stops usually got to disney around dinner.
My kids are all older now- but still we just drive until we are done for the day (it's so hard predicting traffic from NJ past the mess that is DC on 95 that we always just grab a hotel on the fly. When i get to a point where I have about an hour left (or in the past the kids got to be toast) then my wife would look on her smartphone and book a room. Never had a problem- and it's a pain since we need a suite with the 5 of us- so it's even tougher to get a room. The couple times we made reservations in advance we found ourselves hating the last hour or two- or conversly thinking we could have gone another hundred miles or more without a problem.
I'm a little south of 78- but I'm debating taking the "inland route" this next time. I've honestly never done that, but my neighbor swears by that way. Our next trip we happen to be leaving after school/work on a friday so I think that's probably best to take another ~70 miles that is the inland route but avoid DC. I figure 70 miles is about an hour. Plenty of times the nightmare that is DC has absorbed more than an hour of our drive and aggravated me more than that.
If we were leaving in the morning and could easily avoid DC traffic I'd probably charge straight down 95 for sure.
GOOD LUCK!