thanks sharadoc and bc. its been a tough year in our house. in june dw found out she had a meningeoma on her optic nerve. she lost her eye sight in her left eye in 2005, we were in epcots parking lot when she tripped over a parking cone and discovered she couldnt see out of part of her eye. we went to wills eye in philly and they couldnt find anything. well, june the tumor grew big enough to see on an mri. june 18th, they went in and took some of the tumor to test it. (they slit her eye lid from side to side, went over her eye ball to get to it, not an easy surg. to go through) it was not cancer but something had to be done, to close to her brain and other eye etc... after many trips to wills and jefferson hosp. in philly, they decided to do stereotactic radiation, a one time heavy dose of radiation to kill the tumor. they bolted a halo on her head and after many test, 5 hours,4 doctors. and 2 physists, she had her treatment. it was very risky, to close to her other optic nerve and brain. glad to say, it seemed to work!!! she still has vision out of her other eye and no side affects to speak of. she came out of her treatment and said "now we can go to disney world"! through it all, not one tear, not one complaint. we did alot of talking lately and she said her days of driving on 95 are over. she drives the state of s.carolina on the way home and i drive the rest of the trip. so from now on, we are going to take two days to come home which is not a problem for us. after the trips that we have plained already, we have one in sept. of 2012 and than from than on, we are going for 8 nights every jan and ten nights every september. our dd is a sr. in high school this year and after the june trip she will be off to school and make a life of her own.( she will always be my little girl and is welcome to come with us at anytime)im sure she will be able jump in on one trip or another. so, we will see you on 95!!!!! (im an exit 68 guy myself, i cant wait to get to exit 67.

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