I hope this isn't too redundant, because I know I have posted it before.

We love to go to Disney, and we have to save every penny so we can go as often as we do. We have found that saving on food is the best avenue, and the next in line is to be prepared for the actual costs! With a little extra leg-work before we go, we save quite a bit. We bring drinks in, even if it means storing them in a locker (this isn't really an extra expense for us because we always rent a locker), and we bring snack bags with somewhat healthy and filling snacks. We always eat breakfast at the hotel, and when we have lunch and dinner in the parks, we split meals. We are not usually too hungry to do that, because we munch throughout the day on the snacks.
I plan out which restaurant we will eat at, even if we don't know which one on which day. This allows me to look at the menus ahead of time, and make some decent estimations of how much each meal will cost. I keep our 'meal money' seperate from other money, and anything that is left over at the end of the trip gives us a little extra mad-money for any last minute shopping we do. I just don't feel like it is 'adding up' on me, but instead is being doled out from a pre-planned source. We count any extravagant snacks, like Tigger Tails, BRB, or Dole whips, out of our personal spending money.
Planning ahead this way, we always end up with money left over in our 'meal money' fund. The biggest savings comes from not buying drinks. I agree with some pp's that it is not always, usually not in fact, cheaper to eat at other locations on Harbor. We would rather plan ahead and budget it out and not have to leave the park at all during our stay! We love to open and close the park when we are there.
One other small point, not to be contentious, is that although the food cost is just as high at WDW, and often as high or higher at other theme parks, the quality at DLR is superior, imo. There is a lot of variety, and usually something for everyone. I get frustrated when we visit the world, because unless we are in EPCOT, I always end up feeling ripped off. At DLR, it may cost a lot by general standards, but at least I feel that I get what I pay for.
