Flying with our 3 year old-any suggestions

Mimi Q

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We are going to NYC Tuesday morning. Our 3 year old had never been on an airplane before. I would appreciate any advice you might have on how to make this a smooth trip. I've talked to her about it, and she is very excited about the prospect of getting on a plane. I hope she stays that way.
 
Mimi Q said:
We are going to NYC Tuesday morning. Our 3 year old had never been on an airplane before. I would appreciate any advice you might have on how to make this a smooth trip. I've talked to her about it, and she is very excited about the prospect of getting on a plane. I hope she stays that way.

As a fellow mom of a 3-year-old, I recommend checking out some links on traveling with young kids -- some of the airlines have them, but there are others out there. Sorry I don't have any off hand! But from my personal experience, I recommend bringing a "bag of tricks" with you -- go for as much variety as possible. Stickers, small books, travel games, crayons -- think "quiet activities." And snacks, definitely, including one or two special treats. The portable DVD player is also a godsend. Also, be prepared for security. Some airports will cut parents with young kids a break and send you through a shorter line, but some will not. Kids don't always appreciate the need to stand in line, and juggling luggage, stroller, etc and keeping the small one in one place can be a challenge. Plus, some airports won't let you bring the rental luggage cart through security; in which case, a stroller can be a big bonus if you are carting a carseat or carryons. Oh yeah, and go with backpacks over carryons with straps; this lets you keep your hands free! Hope all this helps, and have a good trip!
 
We brought a leapster.. That saved our lives. We were stuck on the runway for over 2 hours before we even left(Ice). Than a 2 1/2 hour flight. My son played with that leapster the whole time. The people behind us said that they did not even know he was there. We beought extra games along, and lots of snacks. We did bring the DVD player but never had to use it. Good luck
 
Do I need to bring a car seat for the plane?
 

Thank you both so much for the replies. :flower:
 
Mimi Q said:
We are going to NYC Tuesday morning. Our 3 year old had never been on an airplane before. I would appreciate any advice you might have on how to make this a smooth trip. I've talked to her about it, and she is very excited about the prospect of getting on a plane. I hope she stays that way.

You might consider getting some chewing gum to help your child with the change in pressure. My 2.5 yr old was thrilled with all the gum I kept offering her.

Also, no need for a car seat, though there are recommendations that it is safer than just belting them into the seat. Make sure though your seat is FAA approved. You can take your stroller right up to the jetway and then give it to someone to stow in the hold. Then it will be available to you when you get off the plane - just wait on the side in the jetway and someone will bring it up to you.
 
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I brought juice boxes and fruit snacks for pressure. Sorry, no gum in our house..
 
Bring a cup with a lid. My DD was 3 on her first trip to WDW. She was great on the plane except for the fact that she spilled her apple juice on me since it was in one of the airline's complimentary beverage service cups.
As she got older I find that "Earplanes" work really well, no ear popping.
 
I brought a sippy cup, Disney princess fruit snacks, goldfish crackers, etc... I also bought some sticker books.. Boy did they keep her busy!
 
Just wanted to let you know she did great on the plane. When we were descending on the flight to NYC, she did start crying and threw up twice. Thankfully, we were on the last row and I was able to clean it up without causing too much of a scene. On the way home last night, she fell asleep about half way home and didn't have any problems. I bought new travel size magnetic play sets and she played quietly. Thanks again for your replies.
 
Sorry if these suggestions are repeats. I'm 1/2 asleep but felt the need to respond, as I traveled with 3 31/2 yo.
juice boxes - suggested by our pediatrician - something about them sucking on them & the pressure of the box itself helps with the ears at tack off & landing.

individual back pack (although he/she may have trouble actually carring it themselves) as carry on. In it have a "surprise wrapped gift" - one for each way.

take a trial run into the airport ahead of time. If possible bring the kids as close to boarding as you can. Some airlines have play areas.

Try to be excited yourself about the flight. Like animals children smell fear. lol

Good luck & enjoy. My oldests are 14 now & love to fly. Of course they still look for their surprises in their carry ons! :flower:
 
Emily and Jack's Dad said:
You can take your stroller right up to the jetway and then give it to someone to stow in the hold. Then it will be available to you when you get off the plane - just wait on the side in the jetway and someone will bring it up to you.
I just wanted to point out that there is a little more to it than that.
Doing this is called gate checking and we do it all the time with a wheelchair.
You can ask when about gate checking when you first check in. Sometimes they will give a gate check tag then, but most often they will tell you to request one at the gate. Ask about it when you get to the gate - well before boarding begins.
You will be given a gate check tag filled out with the correct destination. Depending on the airline, there may be checkboxes to choose where your stroller will be returned, the gate or baggage area of your destination or a connecting flight city.
The tag is usually neon pink or green, so it's easily noticed by the baggage people. If you try to do this while boarding, chances are good your stroller will not be delivered to the correct place (if you are lucky, it will go to baggage claim; if you are unlucky, it will go to another city). Put the gate check tag somewhere it won't slip off easily.
If you have anything extra attached to your stroller (like cupholders, fan holders, etc you added) or have pieces that are removeable, take them off ahead of time and carry them on with you. Anything that sticks out can get caught and damaged. Fold the stroller and secure it so it won't pop open before you leave it at the gate.
When you get to your destination, remember it takes a few minutes for them to get the gate checked items delivered to the gate. If you hop up right away, you will be waiting on the jetway (not a large space) with all the other passengers trying to get past you.
This may seem obvious, but remember to pick up your stroller. We are sometimes the very last people off the plane (I have to partially assemble a wheelchair before DD can get off). We frequently see strollers sitting waiting at the gate whose owners forgot they gate checked them (a friend who was a flight attendant said this happens all the time).
 
All my son needed to know was that we were flying like "Jay Jay the Jet Plane". He looked out the window maybe once and could have cared less about being in a plane. On the way home Air Tran offered earphones for their new radio's they have installed in the arm rests, that kept him busy for a long while. They had Disney Radio on there too.

He didn't have any ear trouble. Gave him gum just for the takeoff, by that time he was done with it anyway.
 
I am also traveling with a 3 y/o this Oct. and I'm more than a little worried. she gets very excited when she sees an airplane, she loves to talk about airplanes, but a couple of weeks ago we picked up our new puppy from the airport and she freaked. she didn't want to get out of the car. she kept saying "I don't wanna go up in the sky". I don't know what to do. i feel like any preparation we do from now until then will go out the window when we get to the airport. If any of you go to PHL on Oct. 16 and see a family dragging a 3 y/o kicking and screaming it will probably be us.
 
Not that you want to "dope" your child up---but maybe check with her Dr. to see if she can take a dose of Benadryl to make her sleepy. Or maybe there is something else the Dr can give? Just a thought... :)
 
ribbot said:
Not that you want to "dope" your child up---but maybe check with her Dr. to see if she can take a dose of Benadryl to make her sleepy. Or maybe there is something else the Dr can give? Just a thought... :)
I was thinking of that, but the only thing worst than a freak-out-fit is a sleepy-freak-out-fit :teeth:
 














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