If you don't mind long-winded, here is my opinion on FR: (If you don't want to read the whole thing, just skip to the end )
We went on the 7-day in October.
Our DD is 2, and an only child who is not around other kids but once or twice a week during playdates and church.
We read the Magical Guide's opinion about the nursery. "Background checks on staff, no areas to get kid alone without attracting attention". The MG
recommended the Nursery.
But I consider myself pretty over protective. We had an interview process for our babysitter and our back-up babysitter. My husband is even more strict than I am, and we had his parents along, who come from the old school where you never let your child out of your site. Never.
All of that said,
We used the nursery. We LOVED the nursery.
At the most, there was a 1/2 Cm to child ratio during its busiest time. Then when they weren't as busy, it grew to a 4/1 CM to child ratio.
There is a split door that goes into the nursery itself, then there is a large one-way glass window that is in the front office of the nursery where AT ANY TIME you can come and peek in and obcerve your child without them seeing you.
They change butts using latex gloves. There are both men and women CMs. You could peek in and see a big burly guy, rocking the littlest baby to sleep while watching Little Mermaid. There are so many toys and books, baby swings and play mats. There is a main room with a tv, then a darker area with a tv for the night time when kids are groggy or falling asleep. If they fall
asleep, the CMs move them to the beds in the next room. They cannot eat any food you put in the diaper bags, but are given as much apple juice and saltines as they want.
One night, we fed DD dinner early, and dropped her off at 6 pm and we headed to Palos. They we went to the show. She stayed in the nursery till 11. The next two times we used it, we would drop her off at 8 pm and then head to the show and then the lounge afterwards. We would be back to pick her up at 11pm.
I agree with people who say....When you first get to the reef to make ressies, schedule every single night. Then they call you the day before and let you know if your child can come. Then you have till fours hours before any scheduled time to cancel. . Even one night, we had to cancel right at our scheduled time cause DD was not feeling well. They only charge you half price for cancellation.
We did not follow this line of thinking and had to make two trips back to the reef during the day to schedule some more time at night. So, just fill in every night at the onset and then cancel as you go.
They give you a pager, in case they need you to come back to the nursery. When we went to pick DD up one night, they told us that they had almost paged us. It seems that DD began asking for her Daddy. She wasn't upset or crying, just asking. And they would have paged us just for this, but then she got distracted and stopped asking. I consider this good thinking, that they were willing to page us just because she wanted her Daddy. She wasn't even upset, but they were interested in meeting her needs. Made my heart glad. (worked out also cause this was the night that DH was a panelist on Mouseketeer, and they would have paged him while he was on stage!)
Possibly the only negative: the hours make doing some things kind of difficult. For example: we scheduled our Palos brunch for Sunday, which is a day at sea. The nursery is not open the same hours that brunch is offered during days at sea. We had our inlaws there who watched DD while we brunched. But otherwise, there is no way to brunch on days at sea and leave your child at the nursery. Also, we scheduled a surial bath during the
morning on a day at sea. Again, the reef is not open during the morning on days at sea. So, unless you have someone with you that can watch them, brunch and a surial on days at sea may not be possible.
The Magical Guide would be an excellent resource for you to get more information about the staff, and hours and costs, etc.
http://hometown.aol.com/entropym/pages/index.htm
At the end of our trip, we wanted to tip the reef CMs. But they cannot accept cash gratuities. So, we gave them 6 or 7 phone cards to be distributed amoung them. You don't have to tip, but be aware that they cannot accept cash as they are salaried.
They charge for use of the nursery. but as DH and I discussed, we would pay more for our babysitter to come and then go play golf and go out to eat, than we are for the nursery and then we get to go have some free entertainment.
We live in a very small town, so we REALLY enjoyed being able to go to the lounge and see the comedians and have a drink. It was such a fun experience.
And we look forward to the day when she is old enough for the Club. She will go crazy for Captain Hook's ship!!!!!
The Cms are the best. They seem to really care about the kids. Shae, Mariann, Keith, Darren and all the rest. We listed all their names on the comment card at the end of the trip just because they were superb in their treatment of my DD, and all the rest of the kids we could observe while she was there with them.
I would recommend the Nursery. Use it often. DD enjoyed it. (Did I cover everything?)
I hope this helps. Have a great cruise.