1.I booked a standard inside stateroom and chose the option that guaranteed me a room but did not give me a room number, when do they tell us the room, when we board that day?
2. When should I expect to receive the booklet with the luggage tags etc in it?
3. On pirate night, do you wear your pirate attire to dinner or is there time to change after dinner into pirate gear?
4. On
castaway cay is there beach chairs to lay out on or should I bring a beach blanket?
Not when you board, but ahead of time, as much as several weeks. You will know in advance, so you can check out a ship floor plan and dream about your upcoming cruise!
The booklet and tags arrives about a month or less beforehand. I'm sure everyone has a different experience, but in out many cruises that's what we've experienced. And, although there was some trepidation for the first cruise or two when we hadn't heard and it seemed like the cruise was upon us, don't worry, all is well. Even in the "worst" case if the mailing doesn't show up, it doesn't matter, the book is great fun (really!!!) but there aren't any required documents in it. You can get luggage tags at the port.
Pirate night is so much fun, everyone seems to dress up in costume for dinner, ranging from a simple bandana to a hollywood-quality pirate costume. You will have a great time looking around. Then, folks seem to keep the costumes on all night, until the end of the deck party. As always, you get to choose when and what to wear, so don't worry about any set way of doing it. Wear it during dinner, change into it after dinner, doesn't matter.
Beach chairs everywhere, some hammocks around, or you an bring a blanket if that's your thing. One more activity not to worry about, Disney takes good care of you on the island, whether you get off the ship with nothing (they even have towels) or everything. Lately we have gotten off in late morning at our leisure, the hammocks are generally taken by squatters who like to keep them all day, but plenty of shady spots, plenty of sunny spots, plenty of chairs, etc.
It's exciting, fun to plan, and there are a lot of questions. Savor the anticipation, and welcome to the cruise of a lifetime!