We have our first
DVC trip coming up soon. We purchased resale. When you're at a store and they ask if you're a DVC member, do you just say no? I know at most stores/restaurants they ask "do you have an AP, DVC, or other discounts?" Seems silly to say "I have DVC but I'm not eligible" but I'm also sad to say "No, not DVC" when we are so excited to be member haha! What do other "ND" members say when asked? I do have a Disney Visa so I know where I get discounts for that, but just wondering what others say!
This is the worst!
We're also resale only and just went to WDW for the first time as a "DVC member" in April.
It was awkward, and I found it to be super frustrating at times. I was never asked if I "had any discounts", rather I was always asked "are you DVC?" When asked at the Polynesian gift shop, I said: "We're DVC but we're not discount DVC eligible." The cashier/CM gave us the discount anyway.
I found that stores in the park which participated in mobile checkout automatically gave us the discount via the app. To me, this just reinforced my theory that the DVC discount is really a promotional sale marketed to perspective DVC members as a benefit. I suspect Disney makes more money from increased sales than they lose from the discount.
Was it just a "bug" in the mobile app that doesn't distinguish between direct and resale?... I'm thinking unlikely. I suspect Disney doesn't actually care otherwise they would have coded the mobile app to not apply the discount in my case.
At Topolino's, the waitress asked if I was DVC. I said yes but I'm not the DVC that gets the discount. The waitress really insisted I give her our DVC membership number anyway. This was our first night there and I wasn't sure how to look up our number in the app - the waitress was like "let me show you"... and proceeded to show me how to find our DVC member number in the app, wrote the number down, and gave us the DVC discount.
Towards the end of the trip I waivered between just saying no when asked if we were DVC, to then getting upset that I should feel like I can't say I'm DVC (because technically, we are DVC) and just saying yes when asked. I don't recall anyone asking if I "had any discounts" - and I never asked for a DVC discount. It was actually a relief if they forgot to ask if I was DVC.
Honestly, it all left me a little upset. Disney decided to differentiate between direct and resale members but they didn't come up with a frictionless way to differentiate us when making payments (except for mobile purchases - where they apply the discount anyway!) I hated the uncomfortable feeling of being asked if I was DVC. Sure it was nice getting this discount when I wasn't expecting it but the money saved at a few places really wasn't worth the awkwardness of trying to explain to CM's that I'm DVC but not direct DVC (it seemed like many of the CM's didn't understand)... or the constant reminder that I was a "sub-class" DVC member. It was very un-magical.
My advice... don't feel guilty about getting a discount if it happens. Disney created this mess, it's on them.