I recommend taking a look at HydroGuy's
A DLR Guide for WDW Vets to get a sense of the similarities and differences between the two resorts.
When in November are you going? Mid-November is when the Holiday season has typically started in DLR (usually around Veteran's Day). If you go after the Holiday season has started, the parks should be decorated and the entertainment will have shifted over the holiday versions (although, with the debut of Pixar Fest this spring/summer, it's hard to say whether they'll be presenting the Pixar fireworks or the Christmas ones - when they debuted
Disneyland Forever for the 60th, it ran during the holidays). Haunted Mansion should have its Nightmare Before Christmas overlay in place (starts usually with HalloweenTime) and IaSW should also have the holiday overlay. They did not present Jingle Cruise last year, so it's not known if it'll return this year. If you're going before the Holidays start, HMH should be open, but IaSW might be closed (having the overlay installed).
In terms of days, it also depends on which days of the week you are considering. During the non-peak season, DLR often only presents full entertainment on the weekends (Fri to Sun). Fireworks and F! may only be presented on weekends; WoC is usually nightly. They haven't announced how long PtN will be presented in DCA (it might not be presented during the holidays because that would conflict with the Festival of Holidays, a F&W like event in DCA). So much is in flux it seems like, so it's hard to say what things will be like in November, but to be safe, I'd plan on at least one weekend night in DL (Fri to Sun) for fireworks and/or F!.
If you can swing it, I would strongly recommend considering getting park hoppers. Think of DL like Future World, DCA like World Showcase, and the Esplande (the area between them) is like the Future World bridge. Park hopping is pretty easy (you don't have to go through bag check again) and gives you some increased flexibility. It also allows you to hop back to DL if DCA closes early (DCA often closes before DL). Also, if you miss an attraction on one day (either because you ran out of time or it was down) you can try to go back on a different day.