I have the same situation with a wife who is not a big theme park person. We went two years ago with the intention of coming back in five years. With good planning, the trip went so well we'll be back there this fall instead! A couple of notes on what you wrote:
--Don't sweat the construction at CBR. As long as the main pool is open, your kids will have a great time and there's plenty of quiet areas that your husband can enjoy during the down time. If your husband really wants some down time, you can sign your kids of for the Pirate Adventure Cruise that operates at the hotel. They only run Sunday, Tuesday, and Friday though (9:30-11:30), so if you end up moving any of your days around, it could give your kids a great time and you and your husband some time away from the kids!
--Completely agree with the posters who mentioned Wednesday as a HS option. It's a short boat ride or a 20 minute walk to Beach Club for dinner from there. You could easily take 3-4 hours there and hit the highlights for your kids and not feel like the day was overwhelming. TSMM, Star Tours, and some of the shows make for an easy and fun day.
--Just a thought on tying the two notes above together. If you switch your Hoop de Doo to Wednesday and forego the Cape May reservation, it would let you start your AK day a little bit later and let the kids take the Pirate Cruise at the hotel
--Quick note on Epcot. It's the least "kid friendly" of the parks. My 6 year old and 3 year old didn't care much for the World Showcase at the time of the trip and the ride selection is a bit lacking for little ones once you get past FEA, Nemo, and Turtle Talk. With the variety of animals and shows at AK (Flights of Wonder, Finding Nemo, Festival of the Lion King) and the animal exploration trails, you might have a better result with a full day at AK and a bit shorter day at Epcot. Maybe flip the Cape May reservation to Thursday if you really want it? It's a 5 minute walk to Cape May out the International Gateway at Epcot
--Glad you have a rental car for your itinerary. Hotel to hotel transport is the biggest pain at Disney
Have a great trip!!!!!!!!
--Don't sweat the construction at CBR. As long as the main pool is open, your kids will have a great time and there's plenty of quiet areas that your husband can enjoy during the down time. If your husband really wants some down time, you can sign your kids of for the Pirate Adventure Cruise that operates at the hotel. They only run Sunday, Tuesday, and Friday though (9:30-11:30), so if you end up moving any of your days around, it could give your kids a great time and you and your husband some time away from the kids!
--Completely agree with the posters who mentioned Wednesday as a HS option. It's a short boat ride or a 20 minute walk to Beach Club for dinner from there. You could easily take 3-4 hours there and hit the highlights for your kids and not feel like the day was overwhelming. TSMM, Star Tours, and some of the shows make for an easy and fun day.
--Just a thought on tying the two notes above together. If you switch your Hoop de Doo to Wednesday and forego the Cape May reservation, it would let you start your AK day a little bit later and let the kids take the Pirate Cruise at the hotel
--Quick note on Epcot. It's the least "kid friendly" of the parks. My 6 year old and 3 year old didn't care much for the World Showcase at the time of the trip and the ride selection is a bit lacking for little ones once you get past FEA, Nemo, and Turtle Talk. With the variety of animals and shows at AK (Flights of Wonder, Finding Nemo, Festival of the Lion King) and the animal exploration trails, you might have a better result with a full day at AK and a bit shorter day at Epcot. Maybe flip the Cape May reservation to Thursday if you really want it? It's a 5 minute walk to Cape May out the International Gateway at Epcot
--Glad you have a rental car for your itinerary. Hotel to hotel transport is the biggest pain at Disney
Have a great trip!!!!!!!!
. If I exhaust us and having miserable kids he certainly won't agree to come back.