fights. -vent-

[Cassidy]

just yesterday, me and this girl, alli, got in a fight. it was because she was acting like a little freaking five year old. she was telling every stupid sixth grader to tell this kid i was in love with him, and that really pissed me off because i was mad at him. so i called her a 'badword' to her face, and i didn't sit with her at lunch because my friend amber told me not too. then this girl, alexis, who sat next to me, who is my friend, and alli's friend, said alli, and her friends megan and jillian (who are also my friends) were immature. now alli is accusing me of calling her immature when i said no such thing. even though she is because she is really pushing this fight far. im just ignoring it but she sent me a message on facebook yesterday, and here is the conversation:

hey, i just wanted to tell you that i was sorry. even though you should be sorry too. but jessica told me a lie how? and if it was i lie you should've just told me instead of acting all mean about it i mean seriously if you really cared about this stupid fight you would've said something to me about the lie that jessi told. and no cass, you did not lose me as a friend. you may hate me now, but i don't hate you. i couldn't hate you. i love you and i'm really sorry..

then i replied this:

im sorry too. but i wasn't talking about you. i was talking about kelsi. but jessi was all like, 'dude! what did alli do?' i was like just, 'she just kept telling everyone to tell tom i love him, and i dont.' then she went over to your table and started to tell you all these stupid things. i didn't mean to be mean. me, amber, and alexis just think you just go a little too far sometimes. like today. that really made me mad. i don't like him anymore. by the way, i didn't mean to pull your hair. i went to grab you by your jacket collar. amber told me to sit with her and she thought it would make you think i was reallyreally mad at you. i wasn't though. i was just kinda ticked.

then she said..

oh i knew you weren't talking about me, but i knew that you knew jessi had told me something and i didn't know if it was a lie or not.. and i was just playing with you cass, i would think you would know that by now. and yes, it hurt my hair relly really bad! and amber was laughing when i was waving at you and alexis was telling megan some of the stuff you said about me, and me, jillian, and megan are not immature.. and you called me a *****.. that's what made me mad. but oh well this is a gay fight so i'm just gonna forget about it.

then i said:

who said i ever said you were immature? why would i call megan or jillian immature? you are immature, in a funny way. ( like, she act like a two year old all the time but its really funny sometimes ) what did jessi tell you? i get really mad at the littlest things. thats just me. i didn't used to do that but over the summer when everyone was treating me like crap, i just got tired of it. now i just don't think i can really trust anyone anymore.

then she said this just a few hours ago:

there is no good way to be immature, and yes you did say jillian and megan were, i heard you. immature is like childish. i'm not childish, you're the one who was gasping when mrs. sturm freakin said *****. and you think kissing is gross and stuff like that, i'm not immature though i just know how to have fun, and i was having fun when i was telling tom and all of his friends, but obviously you didn't, you got pissed. but i said i was sorry and so did you and this is over with so yeahh..

i replied this.

i never said you guys were immature. why would i say jillian and megan were? i even asked megan this morning if someone told her i said that, and she said alexis did. ALEXIS said that. alexis herself even told me that this morning. i never thought it was wrong for mrs.sturm to say that. i thought it was funny because ive never heard a teacher curse. and when did i ever say kissing is gross? and um. your twelve. your still kinda immature. i am too. even my parents, and every freaking old person i know is a little immature.

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now im really pissed off.
she said she was gonna let it go, and now she is just pushing it.
first, she needs to get her freaking story straight.

i never called her immature, my friend alexis did.

when my teacher cursed, i didn't think it was bad. i curse. i just think its kinda weird, in a funny way, that a teacher cursed when they aren't really supposed to in class.

and then she said i think kissing is gross.
i almost died laughing when i read that.
i've kissed tons of people. i don't think its gross. i think it's sweet.
she's never kissed anyone before.

this whole fight is so stupid.
if she keeps pushing it, im just gonna let her go.
none of my friends like her. they've told me dozens of times. cause alli isn't nice.
she pushes people, and goes too far.
its so freakin' rude.

gah.

 

[Sparx]

i'm so glad i'm not in middle school anymore.

 

[Cassidy]

i'm so glad i'm not in middle school anymore.

thanks for the help?

 

[diva122094]

hey, i hope this will help even though i am not good at giving advice.
i go through the same things with my friends too.
i usually just ignore them. is it really worth it. i wouldn't deal with it.she is just probably trying to stir things up. i don't know her personality, but it seems like she is kinda trying to make you look like the bad guy. also, when she says the stuff about you saying that kissing is gross and stuff, i think she is just making it up. i doubt you think that kissing is gross.

hope this helps.

 

[imagineer4life]

i'm so glad i'm not in middle school anymore.

Lol I was thinking the same thing andim glad I'm not a girl.

 

[Mrs. Chamberlain]

i'm so glad i'm not in middle school anymore.

My thoughts exactly

 

[~Serenity~]

just yesterday, me and this girl, alli, got in a fight. it was because she was acting like a little freaking five year old. she was telling every stupid sixth grader to tell this kid i was in love with him, and that really pissed me off because i was mad at him. so i called her a 'badword' to her face, and i didn't sit with her at lunch because my friend amber told me not too. then this girl, alexis, who sat next to me, who is my friend, and alli's friend, said alli, and her friends megan and jillian (who are also my friends) were immature. now alli is accusing me of calling her immature when i said no such thing. even though she is because she is really pushing this fight far. im just ignoring it but she sent me a message on facebook yesterday, and here is the conversation:

hey, i just wanted to tell you that i was sorry. even though you should be sorry too. but jessica told me a lie how? and if it was i lie you should've just told me instead of acting all mean about it i mean seriously if you really cared about this stupid fight you would've said something to me about the lie that jessi told. and no cass, you did not lose me as a friend. you may hate me now, but i don't hate you. i couldn't hate you. i love you and i'm really sorry..

then i replied this:

im sorry too. but i wasn't talking about you. i was talking about kelsi. but jessi was all like, 'dude! what did alli do?' i was like just, 'she just kept telling everyone to tell tom i love him, and i dont.' then she went over to your table and started to tell you all these stupid things. i didn't mean to be mean. me, amber, and alexis just think you just go a little too far sometimes. like today. that really made me mad. i don't like him anymore. by the way, i didn't mean to pull your hair. i went to grab you by your jacket collar. amber told me to sit with her and she thought it would make you think i was reallyreally mad at you. i wasn't though. i was just kinda ticked.

then she said..

oh i knew you weren't talking about me, but i knew that you knew jessi had told me something and i didn't know if it was a lie or not.. and i was just playing with you cass, i would think you would know that by now. and yes, it hurt my hair relly really bad! and amber was laughing when i was waving at you and alexis was telling megan some of the stuff you said about me, and me, jillian, and megan are not immature.. and you called me a *****.. that's what made me mad. but oh well this is a gay fight so i'm just gonna forget about it.

then i said:

who said i ever said you were immature? why would i call megan or jillian immature? you are immature, in a funny way. ( like, she act like a two year old all the time but its really funny sometimes ) what did jessi tell you? i get really mad at the littlest things. thats just me. i didn't used to do that but over the summer when everyone was treating me like crap, i just got tired of it. now i just don't think i can really trust anyone anymore.

then she said this just a few hours ago:

there is no good way to be immature, and yes you did say jillian and megan were, i heard you. immature is like childish. i'm not childish, you're the one who was gasping when mrs. sturm freakin said *****. and you think kissing is gross and stuff like that, i'm not immature though i just know how to have fun, and i was having fun when i was telling tom and all of his friends, but obviously you didn't, you got pissed. but i said i was sorry and so did you and this is over with so yeahh..

i replied this.

i never said you guys were immature. why would i say jillian and megan were? i even asked megan this morning if someone told her i said that, and she said alexis did. ALEXIS said that. alexis herself even told me that this morning. i never thought it was wrong for mrs.sturm to say that. i thought it was funny because ive never heard a teacher curse. and when did i ever say kissing is gross? and um. your twelve. your still kinda immature. i am too. even my parents, and every freaking old person i know is a little immature.

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now im really pissed off.
she said she was gonna let it go, and now she is just pushing it.
first, she needs to get her freaking story straight.

i never called her immature, my friend alexis did.

when my teacher cursed, i didn't think it was bad. i curse. i just think its kinda weird, in a funny way, that a teacher cursed when they aren't really supposed to in class.

and then she said i think kissing is gross.
i almost died laughing when i read that.
i've kissed tons of people. i don't think its gross. i think it's sweet.
she's never kissed anyone before.

this whole fight is so stupid.
if she keeps pushing it, im just gonna let her go.
none of my friends like her. they've told me dozens of times. cause alli isn't nice.
she pushes people, and goes too far.
its so freakin' rude.

gah.

My advice, just drop it.
I mean, if she's so horrible don't be friends with her and drop the fight.
Let her say whatever, let her try and keep it going, but if you end it she'll eventually lose interest. Sometimes you have to be the one to let it go.

 

[bananda]

 

[imabrat]

Why do you even get involved with this stuff? Part of growing older is learning to let silly stuff roll of your back. This, my friend, is an example of the silly stuff.

Just ignore the next person who tries to bring something up with you.

 

[HouseMD1120]

i'm so glad i'm not in middle school anymore.

Why do you even get involved with this stuff? Part of growing older is learning to let silly stuff roll of your back. This, my friend, is an example of the silly stuff.

Just ignore the next person who tries to bring something up with you.

Exactly.

 

[Sparx]

Lol I was thinking the same thing andim glad I'm not a girl.

you should be! girls are crazy haha.

 

[StitchfansJr]

Why do you even get involved with this stuff? Part of growing older is learning to let silly stuff roll of your back. This, my friend, is an example of the silly stuff.

Just ignore the next person who tries to bring something up with you.

i'm so glad i'm not in middle school anymore.

I never had stuff like this. I had "friends" but I was always ignored by them. That didn't mean I started a fight with them.

Last new years eve my friend IMed me and she was like "to three happy years of friendship! =]" I was like "yeah..yay.." even though she didn't treat me like a good friend at all. I don't like starting fights. I don't like being in fights. Just try to ignore them as best as you can.

 

[hkrox]

This stuff happens to me all the time. Just ignore the rumors and everything they're saying. As long as you know they're not true, that's all that matters.