To the question of where the PTA/O funds are going, I can only suggest that everyone become more involved with their schools' organization by attending meetings and ASKING questions.
Our former PTA President is currently awaiting sentencing for two, yes, two felony counts of embezzelment. She stole $180K, yes, that thousand, over a 6 year period. (she is facing 2-20 years, per count, in a state penetentiary) How did this happen? Very easily, apathy! People did not attend meetings, people did not ask questions of exactly how much money was made and exactly where it was going. (her pocket) And, being a very generous community, when the alarm was sounded that more money was needed, more wallets opened up and money was donated. When fund raisers were reported at meetings, the comment was typically, "We did better than expected." Or, "We did better than last year." Or even, "We didn't do as well, we need to come up with another fund raiser." Yes, per PTA guidlines, we did get a financial statement at the beginning of the year. That was the only time one was handed out.
We've since switched over to a PTO. Her doing to cover her tracks. It's actually been good since as a PTO, we are not responsible for the former PTA's debts. (I discovered one of the many debts and began to ask questions. Was one of many factors that led to this discovery.)
My DD is going on the same field trip my DS did last year. Last year I paid $70 each for him AND my DH. This year, I'm paying only $32 for her and nothing for my DH. Seems we are now getting a truer picture of all the funds raised for field trips.
My suggestions. Get involved! Attend meetings and ask questions. Yes, it's hard to ask tough questions of neighbors and friends, but you never know who is taking from the "cookie jar". This woman was a very well respected person in our community. Very involved and very dedicated. Also, had very sticky fingers.
Also, the principal knows who the kids are that are financially strapped. If needed, they should contact the PTA/O to make sure funds are available to cover their expenses.
Have a good one!
Leigh